Relationships include parent/child, sibling/sibling, friendship, dating, marriage, and lots of others. They can be great, but many times they are problematic and can be unhappy or even abusive. This category is for questions about relationships, both good and bad.
Thank you to all the helpful and generous people who shared their personal experience on this page. Your input is invaluable to others who have been diagnosed with ADHD/ADD and the people who share their lives. It is also extremely helpful and full of information for anyone who suspects they may hav…
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Try talking to the property owner and if this doesn't yield
immediate results check your city ordinances to see if light
trespass is covered. You will find most city ordinances explicitly
prohibit light trespass onto adjoining properties.
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Try Classmates.com. Of course, the person that you are looking for must actually be registered and many people are already registered. You can set up your registration for free and then search all you need to. Or you can just go online and search the person but that might cost money. Try Reunion dot…
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Its really hard to tell because you need solid evidence. Usually if it feels that way deep down in your gut, That's what it is. But you shouldn't act on in until you know for sure. ANSWER: Jealousy can't be the factor her. If you think your husband or wife is been cheating on you, it will be pain, …
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Why Men CheatFirst of all, men don't always cheat, but when they do, here are some possible reasons:They are not ready to have commitments.They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.They are concerned aobut their financial/livi…
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Signs from the car:They let you do the talking most of the time. They are using more gas.The mileage in their car is too high. Check the mileage for them to and from work. Is there a lot of unexplained mileage?They want you to wait while they clean out their car before you get in it.There are tw…
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No dwelling on the past. Old news! Today is a new day. No, you should not tell someone that you were a mistress to their partner.ANSWER: I'm not sure if this relationship is over because of the word " were", don't get me wrong, in my opinion only 2 way why you want to tell to a complete stranger, w…
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: he always was and always will be a cheater beware of the diseases he will bring home no charge. I can't think of any acceptable situation for someone to cheat on their spouse. "Too eager and forward" Huh? It is irrelevant if the woman was totally naked and climbing all over him. He had a choice a…
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If you both want to save the marriage, your wife needs to admit to the affair and end it as of this moment. She needs to have no contact with the man she was having the affair with, even if this means quitting a job. She needs to explain why she had the affair--what were the issues she had in your …
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You don't know unless you have some actual proof, but if you suspect something fishy is going on...it probably is.
Is he Cheating or Am I crazy:
There will be signs such as: - he acts differently - does not tell you he loves you anymore - does not kiss or hug you goodbye - if he does kiss you it i…
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Please be as sure as possible he even is cheating. If he's late from work and you think he's cheating, you may not be right. If he is, the quickest method is hiring a detective. It can be hard to find a good one and it can be expensive. You pretty much have to get the goods on him if you are dealin…
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Yes. Should be. Genes are not passed down and mutated the same as humans. Its most likely that they will be fine.
My vet told me that interbred cats can be mentally challenged. I had two kittens show up with a mother one year and I swear, both of the kittens were retarded. One was…
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You are not safe with a narcissist, so you need to make sure it is over. The longer you stay, the more likely your children will show the same behavior in their relationships. Going from verbal to physical abuse can be a close thing. You need a team to support you as you make the move; the most dang…
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This is always a tough question, and (depending on the local record keeping) requires some work to answer. I'm not sure if you have pursued this, but the best way to prove such relationships are from surviving legal documents. If there is a will (do you know where the father died?), adm…
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As long as your children see, experience, and live, with healthier influences, they have as good a chance of growing up to live happy fulfilled lives as anyone.
The narcissistic condition emanates from a seismic break of trust, a tectonic shift of what should have been a healthy relationship be…
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Is there any type of financial assistance to help people in abusive relationships leave their state?
The real answer is no there are no agencies that will help you financially to do anything about getting out of an abusive relationship If you are not divorced, you can leave with your children since you are their parent. There are agencies in every town (ie Traveler's Aid, Salvation Army) that can g…
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Your friend is going to see what they want to see; so all you can
do is try to convince him the best you can. If he doesn't see what
you see then you will just have to let him come around to it on his
own.
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Women stay in abusive relationships for a variety of reasons, it is never that simple. They may believe that they can work through issues with their partner and the abuse will diminish. It is never easy to leave someone when the heart is entangled, just because there is abuse doesn't mean there is n…
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Flat out leave the guy. Tell him no and that you know he won't
change. If you stay strong, he will know you mean it.
Keep in mind, even if he does know you mean it, just leave and
don't stay. Controlling relationships can quickly become abusive,
and then it might be too late. The sooner you leave, …
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Most abusers firmly believe that their abusive conduct is proof and indication of deep love. In their thwarted minds, abuse, intimacy, and love are inextricable.
The saddest part is that many (but not all) abusers really ARE in love (whatever that means, it's such a subjective term) with th…
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Yes, they do work and it is worth it. My boyfriend and I started off as a long-distance relationship. We were four hours away from each other. The most we'd get to visit one another was probably two times a month. It was very hard! We lasted this way for about two years. Then I decided I needed to m…
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The SIMPLE thing to do is to change your phone #
Get caller ID
Use an answering machine
Do you have child visitation to content with?
How about a Conciliation Court meeting?
Finally - you can get a Restraining Order
Absolutely-get an order of protection against them-but make sure the…
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I wouldn't even mess with that. What if he and your brother are really good friends and then you go out with that friend and the friend treats you bad, or you guys break up then that would mess up the relationship your brother had and they would fight. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go out an…
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Getting It TogetherWiki s contributors share their ideas:To be more than friends, you and the person you're interested in must both agree that you have stronger feelings for each other than just a friendship feeling. However, don't rush things. Start off as friends first and as you get to know the p…
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Since she's your former girlfriend you really don't have any reason to be around her family anymore. Since you aren't involved with her and her family then move on. Whatever you did to make her family distrust you is over and done with. Address your personal behavior now and make a plan to act in a …
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This actually happened to me... I left my wife for another woman, divorced one and married the other. Now the problems started because I was still very much in love with my ex, and the steamy 3 year affair I had with my new wife wasn't as steamy anymore. The sex was still real good (better than wit…
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Not if the love is true. You may feel like you are no longer in
love with your significant other, even when you really are. The
best thing to do is wait it out to see if your feelings last and
base your next decision off of that.
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It's amazing to me how all the "nice guys" seem to get the short end of the stick while the jerks walk away with their girls! You definitely seem like a nice guy. I am a 27 year old single woman, and I've been through lots of relationship stuff. Here is my advice to you: Take care of yourself. Alway…
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Love If it's that important there isn't much spontaneity to it.And that expression one always hears"I fell in love with him" or "I settled down". Listen to those words. It's as if admitting you fell flat on your face for this person before you even knew them well enough and then you "settled". Don't…
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How to Know If You're Loved by the One You Love Well, does that person look at you in a special way? Do they seem interested in your conversations (no matter of stupid they are?) Does the person always want to spend time with you and never tries to let you down? Does s/he express her feelings in cer…
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It depends on a lot of things such as: the reason you all broke up in the first place, how long you've been broken up, and if either of you all are currently in relationship with someone else. There's a reason for everything, so make sure you consider those questions above before you give your ex a…
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Okay this is a tricky one. Well, I'm guessing if you are fairly old
in your 23/30s then you want a serious relationship if its 9/16s
I'm guessing its not serious so you have the choice. Go for you
loved ones because if your young and they are like best friends you
can get them counseling and help th…
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If you have children it may be better for them that you two divorce as amicably as possible, rather than be in an unhappy home. Even if you are going to counseling, if you are not happy in this marriage, in the long run the situation will not improve.
The liberated opinion: "get a divorce." You …
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It happens between me and my guyfriend as well but we have a
good-going friendship and not trying to ruin it.
But you your really have s strongg feeling just tell him and see
how he reacts,if he rejects it probably that he doesnt want to ruin
a good friendship.
I've had a similar situation as wel…
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On my opinion, I think it is not. Marriage is not just being compatible with each other. That was the biggest mistake I ever did. I thought we were so much compatible...then today my marriage is over. Answer Personally, You need to think about the fact that you are going to spend the rest of their…
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Saying You Love Her: Here is advice from Wiki s Contributors: Straightforward is the best approach. And don't forget that actions really do speak louder than words. So many people carelessly toss those three words around. Tell her, but then back up those words by showing her. Nothing major or elabor…
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Yes it is quite possible for a guy to be attracted to you if he doesn't seem nervous around you because some guys are experienced and they don't show their emotions all the time because they aren't sure if the girl's attracted to them. They don't want to embarrass themselves and they don't want the …
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The Secret Tantric Path of Love to Happiness and Fulfillment in a Couple Relationship by Gregorian Bivolaru Have you ever dreamed of or aspired to make love intensely, profoundly and frantically with your beloved woman, for even ten hours in a row?! Have you ever dared to hope that it is possible t…
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If he shows that he really does love you that is when you gets on his knee and asks to marry you think about all of the things you did in the past and decide yes our noANSWER:No one is ready for marriage because they never been married before. Its a learning experianceI don't think so if a guy is re…
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If he loves
you he wouldn't talk like that.
Think about it this way. If he really loves you he wouldn't want to
hurt you, but when he says that is. Sometimes, no matter how much
couples love each other, a problem or an issue can seem so bad and
get the better of us that we think it's absolutely im…
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A:(I'm using "he" as in "he, the partner" here: sex-neutrally.) If you understand the question as "Is it possible to fall in love with someone you've never met, except online?" The answer to this is "Yes, but this someone is a figment of your imagination. Even if your partner was absolutely hone…
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Go through the steps- 1. Do you want to be with the person? If yes next step. 2.Have them sit down and calmly start your converstation like so: "I've noticed that"... "I just don't get the same feeling"... "It doesn't feel the same when"... NEVER EVER EVER say "we need to talk"... "It's over"... o…
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Probably not a good idea unless u want to ruin his life
What do expect to come from it? Usually you will be disappointed so
I say let it go. He can probably think of a half dozen ways to
contact you if he wanted. It sounds like he has not so take that as
a sign to just move on. Nothing good will c…
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Because he doesn't want the commitment he just wants a good time. Kind of like a one night stand type thing. also, all his old feelings might come back with he is with you. sometimes it is uncontrollable and things happen. i say, dont sleep with him again. it only makes things worse, trust me. and …
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A person doesn't have to be in love with someone yet I have heard some of their friends accuse some women and men that choose to hang out together or even live together of being gay. A man can simply live with a man and a woman can live with a woman or, brother and sister, etc. Most people never re…
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Perhaps the question should be "Are you alright with the relationship?" If you are happy and things are going well, it is irrelevant what others think. However, if you feel you are at some level being used by the other person, I would suggest that you sit down with them and have a honest talk about …
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You need to ask yourself one question - do you love them? If the answer is yes it wouldn't matter if you lived 10 hours apart. Everything is worth it for love. If you're not sure you love them, go out on some dates and compare them to your guy. You will soon see how special (or not) he is …
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Sweetie, if she does not care why should you? Don't keep fighting for someone who will not fight for you in return. Life is too short and there is someone out there that will be just as interested in you as you are in her. Take that advise from someone who knows.Well, I definitely and absolutely agr…
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Some men don't, some men do. It's often a matter of taste. However, it's worth pointing out that people can change over time. Someone who initially liked only fat girls may end up liking thin ones, and someone who initially liked only thin girls might later have heavier tastes. In addition, a girl …
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Here a variety of opinions from Wiki contributors:I believe that my boyfriend and I are true soul mates. We share many likes, dislikes and even friends say we have the same speech pattern. This has been from the very start. It's like I'm the female version of him and he's the male version of me. Sim…
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IF HE IS HONEST, you can't. How could you if he doesn't know himself? You'll have to wait and see. If he's lying, then he doesn't, and it's an excuse for something else. Do you have reason to doubt his word?
Give him the time that he is asking for. Don't act overly anxious for his answer e…
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Check your call history. If you have called them 20 times or more and they haven't picked up more than 50% of the time you are creeping them out. Give them space. You don't need to talk to them everyday. Try texting them every so often and build the friendship, then call them more. If not, wait till…
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Meeting Women Here are suggestions from Wiki s Contributors: There are a number of professional services that match people based on some kind of "index" or "profile" of compatibility. Their cost and effectiveness varies.Become more social. Join more social groups and activities and spend more of you…
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Male Responses:
What I find interesting about a majority of these answers, is
the general belief that men are the ones most commonly at fault for
being "too nice." I for one, consider myself to be a very nice guy,
who also is hardly a pushover. I think a big misconception of the
"nice guy" argume…
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Picture the girl or guy of your dreams. They possess everything you desire in a mate. If you want someone with a good job who makes money and is independent, likes the outdoors, is fun to be with, attractive and likeable, or whatever attributes you care for, that is this person. Now picture marryin…
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Ask him to marry you and if he says yes he wil marry you and if he says no becaus he is not ready then wait until he is.
To provide another point of view, I started talking to my boyfriend of about 5 years about marriage and he got more distant and then broke up with me saying he wasn't ready…
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Well, he initiated the first contact, which was nice. He really can't be held to more than that after you have gotten to know each other. When it is the right person and the right time, commitment will be on both of your minds, believe me. I think they call it the biological imperative. If you are g…
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Never, Your child is better off with separated but happy parents
than with a united, but gloomy and stressed family. you're not
getting married for the kids. You're getting married because you
want to spend your life with a certain person. If something goes
wrong, you can work on your marriage, but…
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If he lied to you "a couple of times" and they were lies that he knew would bother you, then chances are very low that he'll change, even if he means it. Change your relationship so it doesn't need trust in the things he lied about, if you're fine with such a relationship. Or you can leave HIM to cl…
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IF HE LIKES YOU HE WILL: (I'm using a guy in my examples.) look at you and when you catch him, he tends to look away.Text/call you on his own if you did it first.Make up excuses to talk to you.Find ways to be around you.Pretend to like someone else.Become your friend.Be playful with you.Try to make …
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Some tips:
If you are referring to a close friend or a significant other, I am a fan of playing the relationship version of 20 Questions. Quite simply, take turns asking and answering questions until you have each asked twenty. This may take more than one get-together to complete, but it is a great…
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Ask him nicely and in the right setting. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. In other words, if you have to ask then it's obvious he is either bored with the relationship and needs you to "spark the flame" or is simply not interested anymore. …
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You should ask her, she may feel the same way and if she doesn't you can both still be friends. Shes not going to like you any less if you ask her out and says she doesn't like you in that way. What's the worst that could happen? - (a girls view) Before you ask her, though, you need to get over how…
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You have to let him know sometime, so just break it to him slowly and gently, but make your statement clear. It can be hard to let it be known because of the other may think that all is well when it is not! Sometimes, knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing!
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Diane says: Guys are some what as*holes. it's their nature. try accepting the fact just like what I'm doing now :D Honestly, I think that if you love him you would let go and let him be happy. I totally understand that your crushed. But your hurting yourself more by holding on to something that yo…
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During the relationship , you may not seem happy , and may always seem like you want to leave him etc. But when you guys actually break up , everything changes. You feel completely lost , and you just need him there. What I'm trying to say is.... when he's there with you, you don't care...when he's …
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You know that you are in love when you are truly in love when you can't stand being away from that person for to long, when you are willing to do anything for that person like me, I found out the first time because I couldn't stop looking in her eyes I love being around her and every day we grow clo…
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If you truly love her tell her. The easiest way is to just tell her straight forward. She may need some time to think at first, or maybe she likes you back too, but in the same way you were wondering whether to tell her, she may have been wondering whether to tell you, too. So go on and te…
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Tell him that you really enjoy being with him and that you would like to date him. Ask him out.
In my opinion you need to talk to him and let him know that you would like him to be something more than a friend with benefits. that happened to me and now my friend with benefits is my boyfrien…
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Well, in the first place, if he admits you are so perfect, he probably does like you... To make a guy fall in love with you if he admits you are so perfect, just: Try to prove to him that you're his true loveMake love momentsMake hands touch by "accident"Trip or fall in his armsReach up to grab some…
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Yes, but the opposite isn't true. If someone is nervous around you
it doesn't mean he's in love with you. Especially if you've ASKED
him (what do you mean by "do not want to admit it?") he may be
nervous for very different reasons.
Yes, absolutely true. A guy even shivers around the girl they have
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If you are in doubt if he cares about you or not, then he probably does not, unless you're a very timid girl who has difficulty believing that HE could like YOU. Or maybe it's YOU who doesn't (yet) like HIM and you don't want to try to develop feelings for him unless you know he's honest? Is th…
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Here is some advice from s.com contributors: If she stops and looks at you a lot; if she laughs at your jokes; if shes giggles around you.Here's some help coming from a girl's POV. If you've noticed that she has gradually began to get closer to you, ex: sitting with you at lunch, talking with you mo…
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A person remembers the last contact they have with you, so, the next contact you have with her, make a sincere effort to be nice and say something that is heartfelt and meaningful. Then don't contact her for a while. She will think fondly of your last meeting, and then be more willing to reconcile.…
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Opinions by WikiAnswers contributors: I think yes. Girls LOVE to be told how amazing they are, and having guys like you is one of the best things ever for girls. She might act weird out, but most girls love be adored. I think that you should be friends with her, like go shopping and compliments are …
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It may be both
Love doesn't exclude lust, just the opposite: if you don't lust for
her, chances are you don't love her. And lust may lead to love.
If you still feel attracted when your lust is satisfied, then
it's love. Most people confuse lust with love; the difference is
that while lust is self-s…
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Forgiveness. Nothing is heathier for ones mental, spiritual, and physical being. All can be forgiven in the name of love. Kids are pure and forgive, they also pick up more than many would believe. Forgiveness is apart of the christian religion, it is the biggest part that many people screw up becaus…
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Sry but there's no list you can follow to say if someone loves you or not since we are all different. You need to start with trying to form a friendship with her since you can not possibly be in love with someone you don't know. You are attracted but that's another thing. And you can always ask her …
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Hey, I am a girl and my guess is not any better then any one else but I would say when Ya he wants top be around you and he really talks to you instead of brushing you off. And when he smiles at you just for no reason, and maybe he'll acted nervous. Look, I'm a guy and I'll be honest with you. The g…
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You can say that you have a crush on a person if you have a feeling
for Him/Her and you care what is happening in His/Her life and you
love whatever His/Her personality type is. You can say that you
have a crush of improving feelings for Him/Her if you find
personalities of a person you like that pe…
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First ask yourself...Am I initiating hugs and kisses? If you are, what is his reaction? Many times spouses love each other very much, they have just got too comfortable or forgot how to show affection. Maybe they have been rejected in the past...you know how us women can be with our emotions, it is …
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Reasons for taking it slow(may be incomplete, but not likely) He wants to learn more about you, which means he wants e.g. to discuss things yet discussed (or unfinished), or experience situations yet inexperienced with you.He wants to digest / think about what he has learned, analyze his feelings, m…
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Love isn't blind or deaf or dumb - in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn't bitt…
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I suppose that she doesn't feel like she is in denial. At this point, the baby is in her life and it is her choice. All you can do is what you have done--asked her to carry it to term. Have you offered to raise it too?? You dont.
If your girlfriend of boyfriend has broken up with you, you're pr…
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you should ask her ,does she like you more than a friend,that part can be tough but its better to know than to be unsure,and how u purse a relationship is by not flirting too much back with her,try to get to know another side of her,like less flirt and more communication,so you will know where her h…
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You know when you don't have to ask about it from other people. You will know. Can you see him as a part of your future every day. If you want children, will he make a good father? If you don't want children, is he okay with not having children? Can you stand to live with him and wake up to him eve…
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First of al you may notice a change in your conversation, for
example the things you talk about may be more general or the
conversation may be shorter than usual. Also he might have alot of
excuses not to go out or talk to you (he might say he is too busy
etc.)also notice the way he looks at you. If…
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Below is a compilation of different opinions from several s.com Users: There is a fine line between flirting and the awkward friend-but-not-really-zone, and you must try not to pole dance with that line. If you get into the awkward zone, she'll think you're her "BFFL", which is just awkward for a gu…
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He might act kind of strange and fidgety around you but nobody
else. It probably means he likes you but does not know how to say
it!
He says the dumbest things just to keep talking, or he may play
stupid to get your attention in general.
He tries to hold your hand or starts talking dirty as a joke
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Getting Your Ex Back Here are opinions and advice. Sort your life out. Have a happy life. He's probably got her on the rebound. Think aout all of the things you've wanted to do, but couldn't because you were with him. It won't take the pain away straight away, bit it'll give you a focus. Have you wa…
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Hey People, I read this wonderful comment by some anonymous person on a forum and I want you all to read this too.. It'll Help you FOR SURE!!! Please take your time off and read this and I guarantee that you'll feel better! It is so true! "I've been on this site for almost four months now. When I f…
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...or if it's only a crush? There is only one way you can tell if you're truly in love: you don't wonder about it, you just know that it's there. (People have been asking this ever since love was invented.) ____ It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy que…
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Every night before you go to sleep tell her you love her and give her a soft kiss. If she is angry with you still do it as it makes her feel bad. Of course you don't want her to feel bad so don't over do it. On the weekends make her breakfast and in the evenings cook her dinner. Over dinner ask her …
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For the Grateful (Beginner View)
Surround Yourself with people that love and care about you!
Stop trying to get all you want, start trying to want all you get.
Long Answer: (One View)
Live life to the fullest. Most people strive for the best car, the
best house, the best clothes, for exampl…
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1 kilogram = 2.204622622 pounds
For everyday use, rounding to 2.2 should suffice.
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The secret to true love as opposed to sexual love is to under stand that it is unconditional, if you love some one or something you must love it warts and all, otherwise it's conditional love. A dog can spend its life being mistreated and still welcome its master. That is true love. Before we can di…
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Answer You will have to pay attention to showing up on time and following up on what you will say you will do. This is the glue that holds relationships together, so you definitely need the skills to manage this. Answer You will probably get in a fight or break-up every time you don't take your AD…
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He is trying to get you to like him. I know this because I've done it before. The next question is all up to you... do YOU like HIM? if so take him under your wing, if not and you do not want him to do this again then either stay FAR away from him or ask him to stop.
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women naturally want to improve their men(of which most men dont
want) so they want to know what other men have that others that
their man doesn't have
Answer
Not all women do that. One should only be in a committed
relationship if one really loves the other person. When you really
love someone,…
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None, its just a randomly generated number
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