How do abusive women treat their husbands?

Answer 1

How abusive women can treat their husbands:

Verbal Abuse: (most popular)

• Calling the husband names such as 'useless'; 'a wimp'; 'will never amount to much'; 'a poor lover', etc. She is trying to degrade him.
• Taking advantage of putting down her husband in front of family and friends in a sneaky manner (others are able to take her statement two ways and may not know if she means what she says or is joking) but the husband gets the message.
• Following the husband everywhere in the house and not leaving him alone to relax.

NOTE: There is a gray area with verbal abuse. Example: If the husband continually ignores her when she asks him to fix something around the house; never takes her anywhere; does not help her raise the children, etc., then there is bound to be some nagging by the wife and this does not constitute verbal abuse.

Physical Abuse:

• Slapping, biting, kicking, scratching or throwing items at the husband.
• Not allowing him to go out with his friends on occasion.
• Never letting him have any time for himself.
• Making him come home right after work and no excuses.
• Segregating him from his family and friends.
• She refuses to have anything to do with him, family or friends.
• Destroying articles that mean something to the husband.

Note: A physical abuser whether female or male with often segregate the victim from his/her family and friends. They keep their victim close to them and demand that all attention is on them and the victim must do as they want and not what the victim wants. This is a web of deceit so the abuser has total control over their victim in order to physically abuse them.

Using their children:

I've seen women use their children as tools to manipulate and control the husband. Such as telling them if they don't do certain things or if they do certain things that the wife doesn't want (I mean extreme controlling type behavior) that they will leave with the children.

Answer 2

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