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It depends on the circumstances. If you were the abuser or the victim you need to think about your future very clearly. If you were abused often but not daily by someone who would not seek help you need to consider if your relationship should be terminated completely if they are still unwilling. If you are an abuser you need to pinpoint when and why you started such behavior and most likely involve yourself in some sort of therapy. If radically abusive or abused you need to seek intense therapy. If you stood around and took terrible abuse for a long period of time you probably are in need of therapy as badly as the abuser.
Just decide if you need to seek therapy or simply continue your life. You'll find happiness in being single if you were abused for a long period of time, and if you run into a new abusive partner or get together with the same partner and he stays abusive then you need to cancel that relationship and remind yourself it is not your fault. Good luck, I know that emotional and physical abuse can be taxing and dealing with it is difficult.
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∙ 7y agoWOW, i can only image the pain you went through .. i guess the best advice i can offer is to know that not everyone is like that .. and it is possibly for a guy to treat you nicely and spoil you and treat you like a princess! just know that life goes on beyond that relationship.
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First, you are to be commended for leaving such a dangerous situation. Such a person needs help, but not your help.
Seek to get positive help in moving forward from a trusted mature friend, parent or support group/counselor.
You may also find it helpful to take up reading, hobbies, or fitness/sports.
In future relationships, look for someone who is kind, gentle and self-controlled. Take time to get to know them and also bring them around friends and family so you see how they interact/react to a variety of situations.
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∙ 6y agoWell why would you want your ex back if he/she abused you or if you abused them? MOVE ON!
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How do I fall in love again after ending an abusive relationship with a man.?
need to give it time. don't fall in love with just any one
What are affective response to a abusive relationship?
if you are in a abusive relationship just don't stay with them say that you don't feel the spark in the love and that you want to move on.
What is the meaning of this love by pantera?
i guess it's an abusive relationship.
If your in an abusive relationship and you think you love the person do you actually or are you just addicted to the relationship?
Look up Traumatic Bonding and Stockholm Syndrome. And get out of that relationship.
Move out and continue the relationship?
do not continue an abusive relationship once you are strong enough to leave... my daughter divorced her emotionally abusive husband who molested her children,,, in less then 3 months she is seeing the pediphile again and isolateing herself from her family and forcing the children to be with this man again... if you go back into an abusive relationship of any kind your the same as the abuser, mayber even worse... do not be a fool or victimize your self again... don't do it.............................
What does it mean when someone calls you names then says i love you?
It means you are in an abusive relationship and you should get out now.
What is the new eminem song love the way you lie about?
its about a girl in an abusive relationship (Rihanna) who keeps decieving herself by calling it love and apparently enjoying her pain. the man in the relationship (Eminem) also lies to himself by sayin stuff about how he loves her but he says he'll kill her if she tries to leave again.
What is a sentence for abusive?
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
Is abusive relationship is good or bad?
Abusive relationship is not good. It affects nearly all aspects of life.
Is a physically abusive relationship defined by a single incident or a consistent and habitual pattern of conduct?
It doesn't matter. If someone was physically abusive toward you it certainly violates trust. You have to ask if you can ever trust again. Will you be waiting for it to happen again? Will you be worried that if you say or do the wrong thing that there will be another incident of abuse? That's no basis for a relationship.
Can there be true love in an abusive relationship?
No. absolutely not. If you are being abused the person who is abusing you does not truly love you. the Abuser makes you feel responsible for his/her actions. therefore making you believe you are in love with that person.
Type of relationship that can become abusive?
I am sure there are lots of ways a normal relationship can become abusive but there is one that sticks in my mind: A serious relationship. It is because if you are mainly the girl in a relationship (it is mostly the girl playing the victim and the guy playing the abuser) you are more into love than he is so therefore you push yourself into that serious relationship. As he knows you pushed yourself into the relationship he thinks he can control you now and since he knows it is serious he thinks that you won't run away because you love him.
