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How do you tell a friend who hasn't had sexual relations with her husband in years that her husband is cheating?
Sounds like your friend has a pretty bad relationship with her husband and may be staying with him for family or lifestyle reasons. Maybe she needs to know the truth to help her confront her own life and her own happiness. What about a letter, anonymous. This way she won't feel awkward with you.
What makes you think she doesn't already know? If she's not having sex with him, she should suspect that he is getting it somewhere.
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yes cause she is your sister yes you tell your sister that her husband is cheating blood is thicker than water you need to tell her as soon as p…ossible Answer No!!! Butt out. She will find out soon enough, and will not want to share it with anyone right away. Let her manage her own life. Answer I would tell her only if you know for sure. If you have proof of any doubt. Because telling her and not sure, will only upset her and she will blame you for any fault to her marriage. Have proof before you act. But be prepared for what happens afterwards. No, but... If you have proof of his infidelity, why not you have a word with your bro-in-law personally? You may help save a marriage if he comes clean with your sister after that. Answer If you are absolutely positive and can prove it then yes, you should tell your sister, but don't be surprised if she reacts like you aren't telling the truth. The truth can hurt and it will take her a bit of time to digest this news or, she could already know and doesn't mind putting up with his antics. I wouldn't talk to this louse and give him a head start on priming himself for excuses he may use on your sister. Catch him with his pants down! yes, you must tell her Absolutely you MUST tell her, but you'd better have proof. Don't expect her to thank you either. Just give your information and tell her you're telling her because you love her. Then step out and let her deal with it in her own way and time. Answer Absolutely, go to her with proof if you have it and break it to her gently. She deserves to have a husband that is honest with her and if he cant be tell her. She may already have an idea some- thing is wrong but doesnt think its that...
If your husband is spending more time outside the home and he's not working late. If he is guarding his test messages or cell phone from you. If he seems disinterested in havi…ng a sexual relationship with you (not all men do this and some can carry on having sexual relationships with two women at the same time.) If he skips out of the house using an excuse or no excuse. If you really want to know you would have to pin point the times he is not with you and hire a detective for two weeks (that's all it should take to get the goods on your husband.) There is no point in asking your husband because he will just deny it. If you do confront him then body language speaks all such as getting angry immediately; face can go red; he can't look you straight in the eyes; shifts his footing; stutters and stammers or goes off to another room or slams out of the house.
Most mistress' do not tell the wife she is cheating with the wife's husband and the only reason for that would be to pour salt into an open wound. Mistress' are losers and wil…l never be at the top of the list in any man's life. He may take her on vacation, dine out, go to the theater, etc., but he will generally go back to his wife or, if she finds out and they divorce the percentage is very low the husband will continue a relationship or marry his mistress.
Not a good friend. You need to think about how worth your friendship is to you and put urself in her shoes. What if you were the married one and ur friend wanted to cheat with… ur husband how would that make you feel? You want to break up a family whether they have children or not it just is not right. Especially if there are children are involved be a good person DONT DO IT!!!! What goes around comes around.....
Sometimes he comes home late, he has suspicious marks on his shirt or coat, he does not put attention on you, he does not spend time with you, or he does not have private …stuff with you. One of the major signs of cheating is sudden lack of interest. This goes for multiple categories. Sex, Common interests, being around you, physical touch or affection. As a good looking guy I can tell you that guys in general don't have the emotional capacity to sustain deep meaningful relationships with 2 or more women. Sex yes, but not a deep relationship. We're just not built that way. There are other ways like checking his phone, texts and email but the first signs are above and not limited to just those (although those are good starting points). Answer 2: Some things to consider: Is your mate viewing pornography, flirting, talking about sexual fantasies with someone else or showing sexual interest in someone else? Does your mate behave too familiar or too affectionately with others? Is your mate constantly critical and complaining about you? Does your mate claim to be too busy or too tired to spend time with you. Has he stopped communicating, openly talking to you?
Answer This is a tough one because I always go by "honesty is the best policy." This is something you have to decide within yourself. By doing so your husband… would certainly be hurt, but he'd be able to trust you more in the future (should he decide to stay in the marriage), but it's possible he may walk away from the marriage. Cheating is the worse thing you can do to your mate. It's not only cheating, but it involves lying, deceit and you've basically made a fool of him. That would hurt anyone. You did the cheating, you should be honest! Instead of just blurting out you cheated, take a few days and go over why you cheated. Although I don't believe there is any excuse for cheating (the person just wants their cake and eat it too) to others they may feel alone, that their husband has forgotten them by working all the time or out with his friends and not including you. There could be many more reasons. Express yourself to him and then tell him you've learned from this and that you should have communicated your feelings to him instead of cheating and realize you didn't give him a chance for the both of you to communicate and that people make mistakes and you did make a big mistake. If you don't love him (grown apart) then I wouldn't even bother to tell him you cheated, but do the right thing and at least ask for a separation (this gives you both time to lick your wounds, think about your relationship and be sure that divorce is what you want.)
Yes, definitely. If you don't tell, you are covering an immoral act and thus make yourself guilty. However report the facts only as you have wittnessed them and not your inter…pretation of what happened. If you only know this from someone else then don't tell without checking the credibility of the source first.
Pain shared = pain divided I know you want to get back at her for ruining your life. Do you want to ruin anther innocent person's life? I don't know. You probably should, bu…t would you want to know? Seriously, if you didn't already know, would you want her husband to tell you?
The only sure fire way is to ask him.
Anytime there is a situation of an unfaithful partner, it can be a tremendous source of stress. When coupled with the fact that one knows the spouse of the other party, this c…an make things incredibly complicated and uncomfortable. Under normal circumstances, revealing infidelity can irrevocably change the lives of not only yourself, but all of those involved. In general, this question requires you to make a judgment call, based on your character, experience, and morals. There are more factors to consider than could be discussed on this page, within the constraints of using a reasonable amount of space to type. There are several things which you can consider, however, when attempting to wrestle with this particular question. One of the first things to consider is the other couple's relationship. While unlikely, it is possible they have an open relationship, and therefore there's no "infidelity" on their end took place. That would not, however, excuse your own spouse of any responsibility or errors committed or change how you approach the problem from your end. All this would do is establish that the other parties involved may express sympathy towards harm they caused you, but since they would not consider it "cheating", then their own relationship may not change in any way. The second item you could consider is the effect of revealing the affair. If the other husband believes his wife is a faithful and dutiful woman, telling him about the affair would most certainly change his outlook towards his wife and their marriage. This could possibly trigger marriage counseling, a temporary separation, or even divorce. On the other hand, it is also possible he suspects or even knows already about the affair. Your revelations may only hasten whatever process is taking place. In general, it is up to you and your good judgment. You can ask yourself important questions, such as "Would I want someone to tell me?", or "How would I feel if someone knew this was going on, and they -did not- tell me about it?". You should consider the view of the other party, and consider how telling and not telling them about the event would effect them. Consider what you would feel and think, if you were the one being left in the dark on the matter. In the end, it only comes down to what you, as an individual, feel is best and can live with after having made a decision.
Answer . Unless you can absolutely prove to yourself (no second guessing) that your husband cheated on you then there is a good possibility he didn't. There are more relati…onships ruined by second guessing a partner regarding cheating and it's called jealousy and a person that lacks self confidence and independence.. If he did cheat on you; you actually caught him red handed and he's in denial then separate from him (kick HIM out) until he either comes to his senses and is willing to work things out and if he doesn't file for divorce.. I know I am making it sound easy, but my first husband cheated on me and I was young and stupid and inwardly always knew about it, but was in denial. One evening I followed him and found him cheating with two women! I came home threw his bags out on the back lawn and locked the doors! I started looking for an apartment, found one with the help of a friend, changed jobs (for a better one) changed friends that my husband and I knew and started a new life. I took this time to get to know WHO I WAS and what my strengths and weakness' were and worked on that. I made sure this one man would NEVER make me a man hater or ruin the rest of my life. I dated for awhile, then married a wonderful man and we've been married 35 years.
If you feel the need to tell her be straight forward and tell her but be prepared for questions and its best to have proof to be able to back up your accusations. With t…hat being said you have to ask yourself if it is your place to be the one telling such things to someone to begin with and weigh your options because you have to know you are going to be turning lives upside down and the carrier of bad news. Choose wisely and do what you think you should do.
ANSWER: Big time no , no and it's immoral, so you need to stop before you hurt many people
Watch his behavior,if he suddenly comes home more relaxed than usual then you might wanna investigate why? if the straight forward approach doesn't work. You may have to watch… him a little more closely. If he has really started to take better care of himself buying new cologne, buying new clothes for no reason and especially if he starts going out with his "Friends" more often and doesn't tell you exactly who he's going out with are all good reasons to start looking and paying more attention to what and who he hangs out with.
tell her right out don't hold back if she is your true friend then i would write it as honestly as possible .
No then she will think it is you he is cheating with. That is just my advice
Well the best thing to do is to tell her husband so she knows. If he found out himself I am sure he would be really mad and it would help to have proof too!! I am really sorry… to hear about this. Good luck! However also it's up to you but you don't have to if you don't want to that is but the most logical and best choice is to tell him! ANSWER: If I am her best friend, it doesn't matter if it's not my business but I will talk to her till she open her eyes to reality. I will not leave her alone until she knows that she is destroying her life especially her husband's life. And if she won't listen to me, then bluntly I will tell her to divorce her husband so that way she can do everything she wanted, dirty her name, be called names, but I will not let her ruin someones else life because of lust.