He not calling you from work like he used to?
Most marriage counselors/mediators etc. will advise you that; generally speaking, if you think your partner is not being honest with the relationship, you are usually right.
Keep this in mind next time you find yourself defending your "sanity" to your "empathetic", caring spouse as he ridicules you to protect his right to "keep his friends"....
The only person in life you have to prove anything to, is yourself.
Good Luck, Believe in yourself, not in others that are trying to justify the right to continue their disregard for your feelings.
"Oh, you are just being paranoid."
"She is just a friend"
"What am I supposed to do, drop all of my friends that are women"
"We just talk about (fill in the blank)"
"I married you didn't I?"
"Just because I had lunch with her does not mean we are having an affair"
"I might as well have an affair, You are always accusing me of it anyway"
"you just think too much"
"fine, I'll just stay home all the time. Will that make you happy?
Sound familiar????? Of course it does.
"Oh honey, I am so sorry you are feeling that way. What can we do to get back on track?"
"Even though it is not true, I can see how it might make you uncomfortable. You are my wife, and anything that affects you, affects us. So anything, no matter how silly it may be, is something we make a priority to resolve quickly. Even if we lose friends, change friends, or change our behaviors just to make each other comfortable, it is worth it. What really matters, is we always put the relationship first"
"You are right, instead of keeping "My" old "friends", I should be including you. I am not single anymore, I am married and things are different. I should be trying to think how things like that may make you feel, or may look to others, even if they are innocent...... before I do them and find an alternative,,, rather than do things that bother you, and deny your feelings.
Sound familiar???? Of course it doesn't
see chenfixwei
well if you ever see him in bead with a girl that means he is cheating on you.......
She knows.
no
nothing can really keep a man from cheating unless he wants to get revenge or he is just a gerk
you can tell if your boyfriend is cheating if he is not spending time with you. i don't mean when he is not working. if all falls just ask are you cheating, of course you know that he may not tell the truth. there are many sign to a cheating man. some woman don't like to face the facts that he is cheating in your face. if you believe in your heart that something is going on there is. make surprise visit on lunch or at his home.
The best thing to do is be straight forward, honest and just tell him - there is no easy or special way to do this but be prepared for anything and protect yourself because anything/reaction is possible. ANSWER: Just tell him, be man enough to tell him what you done so he will not be on this despain mode.
ANSWER: If this man is your friend because of his wife, then you don't have a problem confronting him. Just tell him that his wife didn't deserves to be betrayed by him. If he ignore you, then tell him that you will tell your friend. Do it in a nice ways so it will not back fires
if he starts getting musical midnight classes out of the blue
ANSWER: I'm afraid not, woman are different when it comes to how you can catch your woman cheating, its different from man in general
some ways u can see if your man is cheating, is if he isn't acting normal, or is very hesitant about your realation ship, or if hes not with your often, and your can tell if he's lying.
girl that can be tough and she will get mad but a sis has got to do what she a gpta do
If they start to act weird towards you and better towards another person.