How do you tell your straight friend that you are attracted to them?

Answer 1

First realize that you are probably not going to get anywhere with them. Sometimes we have to settle for just being a friend without benefits. Assuming they know you are gay, you can probably just tell them as long as they don't feel threatened. Something like. It's too bad your not gay, I think you're real cute. Push too hard and they will run. Be easy about it, assure them you know they don't feel the same way and on occasion one will surprise you.

Answer 2

They shouldn't.

There are plenty of gay people in the world that can return a gay person's interest so a gay person asking a straight person to be interested is simply spinning their wheels and wasting time. Consider any straight person as someone who has already firmly said, "Sorry, but I'm not interested in you."

If you are asking this, you may be a young person who doesn't know how to meet other gay people your age. This is simply a tough time for gay people, but it does get better! When you turn 18, there are whole gay neighborhoods in large cities and clubs, discos, coffee shops, churches, events. . . there are all kinds of ways to meet gay people.

Bide your time and don't bother other kids who can't make themselves interested in you any more than you could make yourself interested in the opposite sex.