How to stop being jealous of your husband?

Answer 1

Just saying,,, no, married men and women can't have single friends, I have been there and done that with my wife having several single male friends that only wanted one thing. She never saw it in any of them until they made passes at her, then suddenly she would tell me she was not going to call them anymore. I am thankful she is honest.

If he does not have female "friends" ask him what he wants, and do it; if he does not know, do not think nothing, there is always something, find it through research. It sounds a bit simplistic, and it is. Think about why you got married in the first place, and how you felt. Was it love or money? Was it the kind of "I give love" or was it true "You Are Love"? Be honest with yourself, and recognize it realistically. The previous has everything to do with material things. I give you a gift, so I love you. I give you a child, so I love you. It never lasts and it is generated by the affluent society culture. The second is the love that people dream about "You Are Love". This means that you see the person you married as the object of love. This is a point of view which is not often seen in affluent relationships but it brings certain important aspects into the relationship.

This is love in action. You see the person you love as love and it has nothing to do with you, except that you want to do for them, without reciprocation, and without doubt.

Now that we are past that part. I see my wife as she is love. Though she doubted for years, and her mother influenced her to believe I was cheating on her, I see her as love because this is how she sees me. After being with her faithfully for 25 years I realize that too many people do not really know anything but "I give love". You want him to see you as love, and as a man, honestly no matter what you might look like he can see you as love. But it is not without effort, as you will never reap a single wheat stock if you do not put the effort into sewing it. Love is the same, it can keep growing but it is dependent upon the effort you put into it. Be sexy, put in the effort, and you will find that he will have no reason to cheat on you, and you will be secure in the fact that he sees you as you see him, love.

Not all men cheat, some of us actually find it hard to believe that men do and we are disgusted by the fact that so many do. But in time we learn it is about love. Be love through your actions, and see him as love. You won't worry ever again because he will get from you what no other woman can give. This is because "You Are Love" is the only true love, and it will last faithfully because you Want to give to the one you love.