If you love two people how can you choose between them?

Answer 1

Well, figure out the one that you are most compatible with. On the other hand , considering the category this is under. There is not a thing wrong with a married man/woman having a friendship with the opposite sex but, there is a fine line there. Sometimes if one is having problems in their marriage; instead of talking it out with a friend of the same sex; male to male, female to female, they will pour their heart out to that friend of the "opposite" sex. In the end the relationship grows from just friendship to something emotional, then you find yourself after a period of time having feeling for this person.

Then a day will come when you both are talking and find yourselves in a compromising position; ie: hands touch, a simple normal everyday hug turns into something else, and it just turns into an affair.

You can try to call it anything you want. Loving two people at the same time, etc. You just cheated on your spouse. Is it really love? I don't really think so. It just turned into emotional bondage.

Had you spent all that time talking your problems out and how you feel to a friend of the same sex, a counselor, or your spouse better yet, you wouldn't be in a predicament to have to make a choice because they both make you happy, and you see a future with both.