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If you throw your emotionally abusive partner out of the home and he leaves you alone after 9 weeks does this mean he was an abuser after all?
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∙ 17y ago
I don't always buy the fact that some people are labeled emotional abusers. We are all At Fault for "losing it" or yelling when we've had a bad day. That is not abusive behavior. I've done it myself on occasion, but the difference in, when you lose it you should apologize and take the blame for your behavior. If he belittled you all the time and was never there for you then this is classified as mental abuse. You threw your partner out of the house and he's taken you at your word so I don't know why you are so surprised he hasn't come back. Perhaps both of you know you just aren't meant for each other. You sound like you are having second thoughts and my instincts tell me this isn't the first time you've kicked him out, but this time he didn't come back as you anticipated. A human can only be cornered so many times and then they just get plain fed up. It's time to move on. =answer= He's probably figured out that you are on to him and he can't get anymore supply. Good for you! Stick to your guns girl. If you let 'em go and they don't come back, it ain't meant to be anyhow. Your self respect is most important. He can't mess with that!
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Are you in an abusive relationship if the boy cheats then cheats then leaves you then takes you back then leaves you and so on?
If not abusive, it is at least unstable. You may want to re-think continuing with it.
What happens if a partner dies or leaves a business?
do you file a k-1 if a partner leaves the company
If an abuser commits suicide and dies after his partner ditches and leaves him is the partner responsible for the abuser's death?
No, you should never feel obligated to tolerate abuse. If the abuser kills himself it's probably because he thought it would be another way to control you. There is a possibility that he didn't really expect to die in the process but figured he could force you to do something that you didn't want to do. Never accept the guilt trip that those type put on you. If someone is abusive, leave. It can be dangerous. Counselors in prisons will tell you that people who don't value their own life certainly have little regard for other lives either. If the abuser was willing to take his own life, your life was in danger and it was a good idea to get out of there. Abusive people are already psychologically damaged so they probably would have committed suicide with or without you having ever met him. Don't beat yourself up over this because you obviously tried your best, but no one expects another to be the victim of abuse. Abusive people have every chance to seek help and unfortunately this man didn't feel the need for it. If ANYONE accuses you of being the cause simply say, "Until you have walked in my shoes, don't judge!" Walk away, get away from such people. You have nothing to apologize or redeem yourself over.
Is it normal when an emotionally abusive boyfriend leaves you to feel guilty and like you're gossiping if you tell any old friends anything he did?
yes, it's part of the tramazing part. makes you think you deserve it. when really you don't. no one deserves to be abbused.
Is it love when a man leaves you at is house and leaves the ringer on the phone?
No, love is when you become emotionally attached to someone
Does an abusive ex change for another woman?
if he really love her he will but it never leaves hym
When a abused person leaves and the abuser goes straight into another relationship will the abuser still try to get back at them?
I have been abused by my so called husband and when i left, till today he has never tryied to even call.
Can you leave if you are in an abusive relationship and take your children?
AnswerSome women can, others can not. This is dependent on your situation, and the relationship that you have with your children. Often, if they are close to your abusive partner; taking them will not be an option. That would only become an option after a court case. Taking your children with you is often a favorable decision, especially if they are young. However, if taking them increases your chances of being hurt - do not do it. The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the victim leaves, so do not place yourself in additional danger. You must assess the situation.
What is a bitter experience?
One that leaves a "bad taste" emotionally; an experience that teaaches you something unpleasant
What happens when a partner leaves a business or dies?
What happens when a partner dies in business depends on the contract. Many people may write a contract that replaces a partner with a family member of the partner.
How come children with abusive fathers often side with them when the mother leaves?
Fear of being abused more?
What effect does it have on the abuser when the abused partner leaves Just wondering what to expect Thanks?
* Abusive behavior can be part of that person's environment growing up, or it can be a learned behavior when the person is out on their own and life throws them some curves and they lack confidence and feel they are failures, or, in some cases that abusive person can simply be mean to the bone. Abusive men (or women) need a victim to either verbally or physically abuse in order for them to make themselves feel more powerful and in control. Abusers need control in their lives and will go to any length to get it. In this case (good for you for having the courage to leave) he may bother you to some extent because 'you are the one that got away' or he may limp off and find another victim. With abusive people they will always seek out another victim to abuse and it has nothing to do with love. It is highly suggested that you be careful and be sure he does not stalk or bother you at home, work or wherever you are and for the next few months it's a good idea to be with another person (such as a girlfriend) and be aware of your surroundings until you are certain he has moved on. You should consider seeking help from programs at the Abused Women's Center to help you cope with what you have been through. Although you may feel free of the hell you have been through verbal or physical abuse (or both) leaves deep scars and these programs give you the tools to cope with past memories and how to handle any problems you may have with your ex partner as well as learning the signs of abusive men that you may date in the future and to know you have the strength to be independent without a man around.
