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If your boyfriend admits that he cheated with two girls while you were separated is it unrealistic to want him to stop being around them?
Dee - do you mean separated as in 1) broke up or just 2) not in the same location? If number 1, then he wasn't cheating. If number 2, then, no, your're not being unreasonable.
I've been there. Separated or together it doesn't matter. He has no business hanging out with ex-lovers no matter what the excuse, it makes you uncomfortable and that's reason enough to drop them off his radar screen.
Oh Yea, and if the "but they are my friends" conversation takes place, tell him REAL friends don't risk their friendship by becoming lovers.
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this is how If you know he's cheating....why do you need him to admit it ;kick his but out and get you someone who will do you right Buy some panties t…hat r not your size plant them and ask him where they came from if he can answer he is lying.
Answer People who are constantly cheating on another person are insecure, self-indulgent and don't really care what pain they inflict on others. I am sorry hon,… but you are much better without this guy. Of course you are hurting and that is very normal. No one wants to be cheated on or lied to. Breaking up with someone or if they break off with you is like a grieving process. You are going to feel sad and it's normal. It will take time to heal your heart, but in time, you will be so glad this guy actually did you a favor. Many of us have been cheated on and survived. I had a boyfriend that more interested in sex than me. I really loved him and believed he loved me. Of course I wouldn't "give in" until I felt ready (I was 16 years old.) I knew other girls in our group were "putting out", but, I just couldn't do it. He never said a word to me and we continued to go steady for a couple of months and then my girlfriend and I decided to go to Seattle. I knew in my heart when I got back he would have been cheating. That's one thing I was lucky with ... good instincts. When I got back my girlfriend's boyfriend was there and was so happy to see her again, but my boyfriend wasn't there and I learned that he cheated on me with one of my girlfriends. I was crushed! The two of them were still in our group of friends and that even hurt me worse, but I held up my chin and looked straight ahead. If anything that reaction from him really threw him for a loop and I guess he thought I'd be crying and hanging all over him begging him to come back. Once the pain was over I realized that I was more angry at myself for not picking up on what a jerk he was. I was around the group long enough that he grew weary of my ex girlfriend and was not dating anyone else. You see, these cheaters are the ones that cheat themselves. They are so insecure others can usually see right through them, so until cheaters get it right and start considering other's feelings they will end up very lonely in life and never really know what love is. The hurt had gone, I felt free, and I left the group of friends and moved on. 10 years later when I looked back I thanked God that I hadn't ended up with this ex boyfriend of mine. Betrayed love is hurtful and it makes you feel like your heart is going to shrivel up inside of you because of the emotional pain. You are stronger then that! Go with the pain, but start seeings friends and free yourself from this guy and start dating again. Not too long in the future you will meet that special someone that will treat you with the dignity that you so deserve. I sure did. Good luck hon Marcy Answer You won't ever get him to stop cheating on you. I was with a serial cheater for 8 years. Nothing I ever did or said made him stop. We have kids together and everything. He cheated on me while I was pregnant, got other girls pregnant and every other hurtful sick scenario you can think of. It was nothing more than a total waste of my time. Guys like that have severe low self esteem or are sex addicts. They need to feel wanted or attractive (yes, guys have those issues too) so they use sex to get that rush and feed the addiction. It's pretty sick actually. Honey, he's not worth it. Do yourself a favor and don't get tied to him forever (by having kids) Love should never HURT.
ANSWER: By doing the right thing, make time and talk to her. Don't leave any details and make sure you are ready for all the pain that she will feel. And please try not to use… the old excuse most men do, " I didn't mean to do it." Remember your girlfriend didn't put a gun in your head so you can betrayed her, nor you didn't force yourself doing it. If telling her the truth means she can not trust you anymore and don't want to see you as well, accept it because it is you who hurt her..good luck pal!!
Just suck it up and be yourself... Simple as that. But be real no matter what never lie about anything to your boy.
make her lose control
Sit down with him and have a long talk with him. Find out who he did it with, how many times and for how long. Find out if he regrets what he did and if he might do it a…gain. You have to also assess your feelings. Are you willing to take him back, or is it time to cut your losses and move on.
Find a new boyfriend. If he did it once and you forgive him. He'll do it again and expect the same.
Your boyfriend cheated on you with a girl not on your level you talked it over and he admitted that he has a woman prob he wants to change and he stil loves you WHAT DO you DO?
Leave him, or hope that he changes & he's not just sweet-talking you. This is irrelevant, but also lose the attitude/ego. You were quick to say the other girl isn't on your le…vel, but she got your man, so obviously she's doing something you aren't, not that you're to blame for his cheating.
Just be yourself calm down stop being so nervous and just be cool
Sometimes Yeah Cause Don't Want You To Know That He's Around One Or He Just Don't Answer The Phone At All... And If Keep Calling And He Don't Answer Then That's …When You Start Thinking... And If A Girl Answer Then Do what You Have To Do!
u should not do dat u should stay loyal to ur boyfriend unless u have alot of feelings for ur ex if dats true than u should break up with ur boyfriend n get back with ur ex
Ask her why is she doing this, and talk to her more about it.
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You man up.
because the boys don't give what they what that's why the girls cheat on the guys
BREAK UP! Seriously, why are you both in a relationship if you can't be faithful?! Theres no point to this relationship just break up and be single, then you don't need to s…neak around and pretend your both happy when your clearly not... Another view: I don't know, it seems like they're pretty well matched. Declare an open relationship and carry on.
What do you do when your 18 year old boyfriend and me being 20 doesn't want to talk to you much and acts different around other girls?
This is the most probable cause: 1) He is loosing interest in you, which will soon follow either in a breakup or an affair.
Speak to her about the matter or seek advice