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If your boyfriend admits that he cheated with two girls while you were separated is it unrealistic to want him to stop being around them?
Dee - do you mean separated as in 1) broke up or just 2) not in the same location? If number 1, then he wasn't cheating. If number 2, then, no, your're not being unreasonable.
I've been there. Separated or together it doesn't matter. He has no business hanging out with ex-lovers no matter what the excuse, it makes you uncomfortable and that's reason enough to drop them off his radar screen.
Oh Yea, and if the "but they are my friends" conversation takes place, tell him REAL friends don't risk their friendship by becoming lovers.
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that is easy,the stupid one if the boy is good to them then no but if he treats them bad than yes cheat on him or leave him A girl who likes sleeping around will pick o…ne person to be her security, and the rest are just for fun. They won't be happy with one partner until they decide on one who is the ultimate in all areas.
Answer Find a way to talk to a lot of girls. You need to get to the point where you don't care what they think about you, and you're just talking about something …that doesn't seem threatening to you. Maybe get a job someplace where you sell stuff, and a lot of your customers will be girls. Perhaps you could talk to girls at church or in a club. Anything that lets you talk to them about stuff that doesn't force you to think up something to say. Once you can get past that, the rest will be a lot easier. Answer Maybe you should just act like your friends around the girls and just be your self. Close your eyes (don't actually close your eyes when you're talking) and pretend you're talking to your best friend. Answer Unlike the answers above this one, this one is more of a... safe way. Just become friends with the girl, don't try to push becoming boyfriend/girlfriend. Girls are people, just like you and me, so it really helps to try to talk to them and let them know that your a nice person. The biggest mistake you can make is by asking her out right away. Trust me on that one. You need to become friends. I can't carry out a conversation well at all, but now I can actually talk to girls like their a regular person instead of someone that is unapproachable. Just be their friend, and eventually you'll stop being nervous. Answer First, you have to get to know girls. Not in a boyfriend-girlfriend way, but as friends. Are you uncomfortable or awkward with your close friends who are boys? Probably not. It's the same with girls. Just get to know them, and be friends. Then eventually, you won't be nervous around them anymore. Pursuing a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship from the start is a big mistake because, to feel comfortable around a person, you need to get to know the person.
Sit down with him and have a long talk with him. Find out who he did it with, how many times and for how long. Find out if he regrets what he did and if he might do it a…gain. You have to also assess your feelings. Are you willing to take him back, or is it time to cut your losses and move on.
He might or he just want to be alone away from everyone he cares about
BREAK UP! Seriously, why are you both in a relationship if you can't be faithful?! Theres no point to this relationship just break up and be single, then you don't need to s…neak around and pretend your both happy when your clearly not... Another view: I don't know, it seems like they're pretty well matched. Declare an open relationship and carry on.
Answer Your boyfriend won't admit that he cheated because that is admitting fault and that he did something wrong. He also is probably hoping that if he continue…s to deny everything that you will eventually give up and believe him. Or he may not want to admit that he cheated because he feels that he may lose you if he is truthful.
Answer My answer is get some confidence. If you're nervous, you're being too hard on yourself, likely judging yourself more than the guys are. Look at yourself a…nd find things you like. Wether it's the way your eyebrows raise when you smile, your hair color, the way you always try to dress well or the way you look like you have better things to do....these are the things a guy will notice about you. You can't expect a guy to like you if he sees your insecurity- guys don't want to be our babysitters and constantly tell us we are not fat! Get out there, pick one you think you may like, walk right up and be yourself. Ask if he's dating someone, and don't cry if he says yes or says he's not interested. Just get out there and see what happens. Always try to have fun, don't lie, and if he seems not to like something about you don't let him change it- be who you are have the best time you can. That's what dating is supposed to be about right? Good luck and whatever you do, don't use pickup lines! ;)
How can you stop being overly paranoid and obsessive when you get a boyfriend because you're afraid he will cheat on you?
You should really take time for yourself and sort these feelings out before you consider being in a relationship. Counselling helps.
You can call her unfaithful.
well if you get really nervous around her try, to take it slow for a moment relax and just chill take a few seconds to breathe without sufficating and not breathing when she w…alks past you, be your self and gather up some courage and strike a converstaion with her, find out a couple of things she likes, DON'T ACT ALL FREAKY STALKER LIKE there is nothing more than acting like a weirdo, that can scare someone into getting a restraining order. talk to her here and there maybe if her birthday comes up and your feeling generous buy her something nice, flowers, a CD, or well something she likes or is into. GOOD LUCK :) -Kristin !!
first of all you shouldn't make someone try to cheat on their boyfriends, if they like you they will leave them, obviusoully if they don't leave them , get the hint buddy.-isa… First things first, cheating is wrong. If you have ever been cheated on then you should know how it feels, Like Isa said "if they havn't left that person already then they obviously don't want you!" so move on. -An
If a girl sleeps around a lot while she is single is she more likely to cheat when she is in a relationship than a girl who does not sleep around?
\n. \n Answer \n. \nProbably yes. However, it may depend on why she's sleeping around. Is it simply because she likes variety, or is she trying to find an 'ideal man' wh…o probably doesn't exist? It's also possible that she wants to avoid the commitment that a permanent relationship involves. On the face of it, none of this is auspicious.\n. \nJoncey\n. \n Answer \n. \nIt is no different than young guys sleeping around so why be so hard on the girl! Some women if interested in a young man at the right time may sleep with him, move on, find someone else and repeat the process all over again. This doesn't make her a bad person, and is no different then some guys sleeping around. As long as she didn't cheat on her partners then it's really none of your business what she did when she was single.\n. \nNo, this doesn't mean she'll cheat on you, but was experiencing her own sexuality.
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Answer Easy you find attractive men that you make your male friends and talk to them all the time. Then watch how the tables will turn. Don't worry about the stu…pidity of what he is doing. Worry only about what you aren't doing.
ANSWER: By doing the right thing, make time and talk to her. Don't leave any details and make sure you are ready for all the pain that she will feel. And please try not to use… the old excuse most men do, " I didn't mean to do it." Remember your girlfriend didn't put a gun in your head so you can betrayed her, nor you didn't force yourself doing it. If telling her the truth means she can not trust you anymore and don't want to see you as well, accept it because it is you who hurt her..good luck pal!!
Ask her why is she doing this, and talk to her more about it.