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If your girlfriend constantly thinks you are cheating on her but you are not how can you convince her otherwise?
After i and my lover spent about 6 years together, my boyfriend told me that we can not be together. and already We were making ready ourselves to get married this year and I was very happy and absolutely ready to marry him. this breakup started when he went a little far from the city where I live, a year before. He found a good job out there. And he promised me to come back in one or two years. In the mean time, I found a job around his place (we take it as a good opportunity for us to start living together) but the company I worked for resist to leave me since i am a responsible person in the company. They offered me a very nice salary increment with huge responsibility of work. Then I told to my boyfriend I preferred to stay where I live and work, since, he has not a plan to live there forever. He was very upset at the moment and ignored me totally. I tried to contact him but I can't. Following so much effort he sends me a message saying "our relationship is over". I never expected such a thing to happen, so I got sick. Even after so much begging he allow me to see him, but told me the same thing that it is over. I asked him the real reason. He said, you never listened to me, you never gave me credit, and you disrespected me…..and so on. I never noticed such a thing in our relationship before, so I got shocked and couldn't say a word in front of him. For me our relationship was perfect. And I really love him. I want to be with him. I send so many letters saying I'm sorry, I tried to contact him but there is no reply. i did everything to attract him and live with him forever but nothing was going through. so I needed a help on how to get my lover back. I had the feeling that he still loves me, though he did not say a word. I needed help seriously. i thought it will never possible to get him back and be the happy couple again? so when i read testimonies about dr.marnish@ymail. com i contacted him and he told me that my case is a simple one to solve, so after his consultation and casting of his spell my boyfriend emailed me telling me he was sorry for all that he did to me, that he is ready to marry me now, i was shocked, i never believed that dr.marnish could make such thing to happen with his spell, today i am getting married to my boyfriend, and i will never forget this spell caster i will always talk about him anywhere i go
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A: Most people would call that person a hypochondriac (hy-puh-KON-dree-ak). A definition of hypochondriac from www.dictionary.com states that a hypochondriac is "a …person who worries excessively about his or her health." Hopefully, the person you are referring to isn't really ill. Maybe a doctor should be consulted to make sure. Otherwise, hypochondria can be a condition all it's own--true hypochondria has been classified as an anxiety disorder. See this link for more information: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/features/worried-sick-help-for-hypochondria Therapy can help someone like this to overcome their disorder. I hope you will be able to help this person to overcome whatever challenges they're facing right now, whether they be real or imagined.
well.. be sweet, be sorry and sorry, surprise her with flowers and stuff she likes like chocolate and apoligize for your wrong doings. posted by Blake clarke (:
Sometimes when people are doing wrong they try to place the guilt on their partner. Maybe he's the one cheating. If not, he have some major insecurties. You need to make… friends and go out and have a good time. This is no way to live your life. If marriage counselling doesn't happen I can't see you contining like this. It's unhealthy for you and your husband needs help.
You are obsessed and have nothing better to do. Seriously, everyone crosses this bridge, just go with it.
When you constantly think of someone else, it means that you are in love with the person or you are into him.
It means she finds something interesting about you, she might want to talk to you, but she wants you to make the first move. or it can also mean they r day dreaming or playing… hard to get >:O
There must be a reason to begin with why she has convinced herself or believes that you have been. It is hard to change a ladies mind that either has been cheated on in the pa…st or has a reason to do so in the present. The best you can do is be truthful to her, and tell her how you feel as well as explain to her how it makes you feel to be accused of such a thing. Also, it is important that if she feels insecure it is unrealistic to be controlling and want to know your whereabouts at all times although it is always comforting to offer her information without her having to ask for it of what you been up to. If she still continues to do this maybe you may need to seek counselling together as to get to the root of her issues. And unfortunately if she will not be interested in doing this and continues to accuse you then it will be inevitable that it will cause major problems in your relationship. Answer I hate to add fuel to the fire, but it is possible that she has also been cheating. Really, both of you need to have a close conversation about your values in the relationship and the freedom of movement you both want. Keep discussing calmly until you find a compromise that you both can live with. It may take help from a third party.
lol my bf was pretty sly... if she is a virgin tell her you kow a way you can have sex without her losing her virginity... and then all you have to do is convince her anal doe…snt count..make sure she's as clueless as i was back in the day :P haha
simply punch her in the face and enjoy it while you can ANSWER: Before you confront her and tell her that you have some idea on what's going on, try talk to her first. Just t…he two of you away from everyone you know, then ask her what's going on. Then tell her what you thought she's doing. Accusing will not help you in case she is not doing anything to betrayed you. She's probably having some personal problems that she needs to think or solve it by herself.
I personally am a girl, and would find it possessive, arrogant, snooping, upsetting, and angering if my boyfriend accused me of something of this nature which was untrue. Howe…ver, if you truly think that this is the case, you should definitely talk to her. Remember that girls like sensitive, honest and open guys, so this kind of approach will probably bode well with your girlfriend. It will certainly bode much better than, for example, snooping around in her things to find clues. if you have an idea of who the guy is, DON'T physically hurt him in any way - it will upset/anger your girlfriend and make her continue cheating, or dump you instead of him. If you are too shy or proud to talk to her, or are uncertain as to whether it is true, get a close friend which you share to ask her for you.
Just enjoy her company, be friendly and faithful. Treat her with respect and as a partner in the relationship. Words won't do it. Don't just charm her and make promises y…ou aren't willing to keep. Make sure that she knows you are happy being with her and that nothing else in the world would come close to making you as happy as she does. Make sure you are being a good boyfriend to and make sure that she knows you care and are trying.
You probably can't . You cannot prove a negative. You cannot prove, for example, that you have never shoplifted. It's incumbent upon an accuser to provide proof that you d…id, and until he does so, it is assumed that you are innocent of shoplifting. The same goes for cheating.. The fact that you asked the question is a good indication that it is not likely you will be able convince him. Apparently, you have tried and failed to convince him, so you are coming here for the magic words that will put him at ease. But it's very likely that he is very insecure and overly suspicious and cynical, and he will never be convinced, no matter what you say.. It also may be a reflection of his own lack of trustworthiness: he may believe that everyone is as dishonest and disloyal as he is.. So, until he provides proof or at least probable cause or reasonable suspicion -- I stress the word reasonable -- that you have cheated, it is unfair and unreasonable for him to continue challenging you on your fidelity.. His unreasonable suspicion and constant challenges should give you pause about continuing your relationship with him. I'm not suggesting you break up with him, but you should consider his inherent lack of trust carefully.. Different approach . First ask yourself the question; "why does he think I'm cheating?" If this relationship is important to you, you will honestly answer this question and take steps to resolve his fear. When he can see his concern was important to you, it will help him to trust you.
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How can you convince your girlfriend you love her if you keep breaking up with her because you think she's going to cheat and not like you and break up with you?
Answer If you fear that she's cheating on you because that's the kind of person she is, you shouldn't be with her and you should find someone who won't cheat on …you. If you fear that she's cheating on you because you're a paranoid jerk, maybe you shouldn't have a girlfriend and should live in a cave.
If a husband constantly accuses his wife of cheating do you think he is likely the one who is doing it?
easy ............................................................................................DIVORCE!!!!!!!!!!.... screw that your married your supposed to trust each ot…her and talk to them. sit down with her and tell her simply that she is amazing and you have no reason to cheat on her. don't get a divorce over something small like this. if she is asking you about this she must love you cause if she didnt love you she wouldn't care if you slept around on her just be honest with her. spend more time with her. take her out to dinner. hope this helps. im going situation right now!
Quite simple, all you need to do is make sure that the two of you never loose the connection that made you marry him. Always talk to each others, no matter what subject it may…be. Tell him what you want, what makes you happy, and what would you make you as beautiful as the next person. After that tell your husband that it's his turn to tell who and what he like about his life, especially being married to you. If the two of you can have this connection and never loose it, you can be sure that your relationship with him will last longer...