The best thing you can do is listen to her and care for her, hopefully without suffering abuse yourself. Encourage her to seek counseling. Be willing, though, to deal with the very real possibility that she will not change.
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Whipped is a synonym of henpecked. It means that the girlfriend controls the boyfriend, and is in control of the relationship.
When you and your girlfriend are having a disagreement, just remember that the girl is always right . The girl always wants to have most of the control in the relationship.
It's refreshing to hear that you are gentleman and haven't made a move yet on your girlfriend. However, if you have been with your girlfriend for quite sometime then what she is asking is to have a sexual relationship. Your girlfriend should have been discussing this with you and not her! First learn good communication skills and sit down in private with her and discuss your relationship. Never let anyone rush you into a sexual relationship if you feel you are not ready. There are things to think about regarding a sexual relationship such as sexually transmitted diseases; birth control or unwanted pregnancies.
because your basiclly in control of the relationship
He has a girlfriend because he stepped up to the plate and took the risks. AND Because he took control and wasn't afraid to share how he felt to his crush. Also because he probably wanted to know how that girl felt about him.
Because the boy loves the girl so much, he can do anything for her girlfriend he loves her girlfriend so much! Or, it could be because some see their girlfriend's either as possessions or as being unable to control their emotions and prevent being seduced by other men.
Sure. You can't control him and if you make a big deal out of them they will harm your relationship. Just stay cool and ignore that he has them.
What do you mean by that? Are you someone seeking guardianship over a 16 year old family member? or Someone seeking to control a 16 year old girlfriend? If you seeking to control the girlfriend, your whole mindset is wrong. No one has the right to "control" their significant other. A relationship is not about control and if you don't approve of what the other person is doing and it doesn't fit into your lifestyle, leave.
Because she is in complete control of the relationship, and he has no idea how to tell her how he really feels. He just tries to please her no matter if it makes his life hell or not. Growing some ballz might also help improve his situation.
Because beeing older than her he knows what he has to do, and he doesn't let her make mistakes
Sure. Because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that either of you can't look at others. My bet is every so often you see a picture or girl and think "wow". That is normal human behavior. Chill out and don't try to control her. You will loose her if you act that way.