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depends on what you are getting counseling for. my personal experience has been that it gives him a chance to hear it from someone other than you - because the ego doesn't get in the way. it opened us up to wanting to help each other, instead of work against one another.
good luck!
AnswerHonestly, I am not sure about this one.For I personally believe that counselling can only help someone if they know that they need it and if they are seriously interested in changing themselves.But, I have seen that abusers rarely acknowledge their shortcomings.They are an egoistic and self-centric lot and that's the very reason they abuse others.If you want to test your abuser if he can change with counselling,I will suggest a simple test.Give him an example of a similar situation in your friend is or omething you read about.And if his answers are very logical and mature,then you know that this person very well understands the difference between right and wrong,good and bad.And yet, he has reacted the way he had with you then he definitely does not need any counselling.All he needs is a kick in the butt by you for good!And if he justifies the behaviour of the abuser in your example then he definitely needs help.But there is no guarantee that he would change.So, for the sake of your personal safety and well-being,I will advise you to help him to seek 'help' and you move on.Please do not try to waste any more time on such a relationship and a person.Wish you all the best!
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Is it possible that your ex abusive husband to change when he remarried and shows stable signs of not being abusive to his second wife?
Possible, but not likely for him to change on his own without serious counseling.
Your abuser ex husband can be change actitud when he remarried and be a good man?
yES; There is nothing you cannot cure yourself of when you ADMIT YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. A man or woman CAN CHANGE with counseling, a lot of self discipline, and CONSTANT WORK. Yes, men AND women, with help and counseling, CAN remarry and correct themselves.
How do you make a horrible husband nice?
You don't. People are who they are and when you married this man he was who he was. You can't change people if they don't want to change. The best you can do is get counseling for the two of you or leave him.
Is a married man able to change his abusive behavior towards his wife after 40 years of marriage?
Anything is possible if you want to try hard and endure and work hard. Most men will not attend very many counseling sessions and don't want to talk about problems. A man who needs to change his reactions will need to get comfortable with talking and sharing alot. Things in childhood has to be addressed and he needs to reprogram his bad thinking that was placed there by what happened to him in childhood. There is a lot to learn and he has to want to learn it to become a different man than he is now.
Is there still a chance that a 25 year old man can change even if he hasn't been able to keep a job in the past two years and doesn't have anywhere to live?
It's certainly possible to change, but it sounds like he may need some structured help. If the structure to make the change does not exist on the inside, then it must come from the outside, such as counseling, therapy or a personal coach to help get him started and keep going.
Could you be addicted to counseling?
This sounds possible but uncommon. You can become addicted to anything.
What is the scientific advice about possible inherited birth defects called?
Genetic Counseling
If body transplant becomes possible in the future and scientists transplant the body of a woman on to a man's head will that change the man's sexuality?
No, since the testicles are still in the body of the man.
Open Up To Counseling For Better Results?
Counseling can come in the form of speaking to a therapist, a psychologist or a psychiatrist. No matter the purveyor of counseling, the goal is to better one's quality of life. Whether the reason for counseling is grief, specific mental illness or learning coping mechanisms for emotions, counseling can make these things manageable. However, you have to be ready to talk about your problems. Open up in counseling to get the best help possible.
Can you receive a negative counseling for something that happened a week prior in the army?
Yes, it is possible to receive negative counseling for something that happened a week prior in the military. Counseling can be given for various reasons, including disciplinary actions or performance issues, and the timeline for counseling can vary depending on the situation and the severity of the incident.
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No; A man cannot get pregnant unless he has had a gender change and has had a uterus placed in his body.
How would the change from man to werewolf be scientifically possible?
It couldn't. That's why it's called fiction. It's for people with an imagination.
