Is it right for your husband to get angry with you when you tell him you do not like the way he is speaking to you?

Answer 1

== == IF you do not like the way your husband is speaking to you then you have the right to say so. A marriage is not a marriage if you don't voice problems or other things that are bothering you. One thing you have to look at though, is if you are being reasonable. If there is a problem or a reason why he is talking to you this way then you need to understand that marriage is a two way thing and he has a right to voice his opinions and problems just as much as you do. If he is being abusive though, this is not right. You need to tell someone and get help right away before he hurts you. If you do not know who to turn to try a women's refuge a maybe a local helpline to your area and if need be, even call the police. Help is out there everywhere you go. I think in some cases its the way people word things too. If it's just the talking part you may need to look at that as well. AND - if this happens often, don't stomach it. tell a friend and keep her up to date. it helps to have a second parties opinion- sometimes- you need to look at the conversation from every angle, especially his. What was fueling his attitude problem? bad day? regularly arrogant? extra testosterone? OR- did you do something that erks him? a good relationship (married or not) needs to have: honesty, openness, trust, truth, and understanding. Additional comment: Every married couple has arguments. The trick is to learn how to argue constructively. If you have an argument and it festers, you're not doing it right -- check out a marriage counselor. I think it depends on how you express that too him if you ask him really nicely to change his tone maybe stop yelling and to discuss the issue at hand civally but dont yell back and dont lower to the others leval treat each other with respect and understanding its not always what you say its how you say it tone and everything.