Should you just walk away forever from both your abusive narcissistic psychopathic husband and son whom you love?

Answer 1

Something has to be the 'trigger' for any type of abuse. If the abuse has been going on for long and I suspect it has if you are considering walking away, then whatever the trigger is is probably something that will never be forgotten and unlikely to be forgiven. If violence is present in the relationship then you have to take your son with you if he is perceived to be in danger. I know it's very difficult to do and easy to say but you should go and enjoy the rest of your life. As they say there are plenty more fish in the sea although I know you won't feel like fishing just now. Get out and get your sanity and personality back, stand on your own two feet. Think of it this way, when you leave, you won't have a terminal illness, you are not going to starve or die, you will be free, no constant hassle, peace of mind, and you will become calm and rational. Do it now the sooner you do, the quicker you will get back to normality.Good luck. Sounds like you are extremely angry and have had it! I don't blame you. First off, children learn from one or both parents. I don't know how old your son is, but if young, take the son and leave if you can. If he's in his late teens or up, too late! He will have to learn on his own. It's too late to change things now, so if you are very unhappy I suggest you leave. Don't feel guilty. You have a right to happiness and no one should use you as their flogging post. Before you make this decision please take a mini vacation (even if you have to stay at a relatives or girlfriends) and cool off before making this drastic decision. I wish you good luck Happy New Year Marcy