Signs a man is having an affair?

Answer 1

Not having sex with you, being out more with no or odd explanations, more secretive, doesn't answer phone, too many wrong numbers - any of those are concerns.

i no this as my best friend had a boyfriend and dumped her and went out with some1 else called minnie and she is my sister. One day she woke up and he wasnt answerin the phone when he got home he just wanted to go to bed she rung the home phone of where he was before and there was a young girl that answered the phone about 12 and told us she knows him and just had hrd sex wif him. signs are : not answerin the phone , going out and wnt tell u why, dsnt answer ur txt messages, wrong number . my suggestion if this is happening to you is to follow ur boyfriend/partner when hes going out to find out wheres he going!

Answer 2

First of all you do not state if you are male or female and the nature of why you think the person is cheating. Just because a person works long hours does not always mean they are cheating. Communication is the key effort in keeping your relationship alive and keeping your mate from straying. Some reasons that a male usually cheat is that he is not getting the necessary attention he craves and needs. Are you providing love and sex with your mate? When you neglect your mate, they will no doubt feel unloved and unwanted and start opening their heart for the first person who shows interest in them. Many relationship books teach that communication is the key. Some things that may cause you to doubt that your mate is cheating could be; they become secretive, always carrying their cell phone with them. Speaking late on the phone. Not showing you their emails. Opening accounts in their own names. Buying new clothes, paying attention to their looks, when in the pass they never really cared before. Always late and never phoning to tell you where they are at. Coming home at odd hours of the night. Hanging out more often with his friends. But most of all is that the person is just not into you like they once were when the relationship was going good. You no longer have the same interest. You no longer hold hands, kiss each other, and even goes as far as not saying I love you. All this does not always mean that the person is cheating. It could mean that the two people in the relationship have grown apart, which in turn could lead to one of the individuals cheating. Communication and being attentive to your mates feeling usually is the key factor in keeping you mate happy and satisfied. But do consult with your mate if you assume they may be cheating, now days it could be a matter of catching a deadly disease. Good Luck!