What would you like to do?
Be there for her. This might be very hard for you to understand at first, but if she trusted you enough to tell you, than this should be something that will make your relationship stronger in the end, not tear it part. Some guys dont know how to take this information, because it is a big deal, and they'll distance themselves. All she needs is someone who understnds. If you love her, try to be this man.
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If one knows that they have been mentally abusive in all their relationships and wants to find support groups where does one look?
These may be of help: Links to Therapist Directories, Psychological Tests, Resources, Support Groups for victims, and Tutorials: http://www.suite101.com/links.cfm/npd http://…www.suite101.com/links.cfm/9128 http://www.suite101.com/links.cfm/18046
If your husband is a somatic narcissist and has been unfaithful with many women and men how does this relate to his sexual abuse as a child?
Answer A person who has been sexually abused as a child doesn't even realize the damage has already occured mentally. Either the child will keep this abuse a secret or …if the family should find out it is kept secret. Either way the child usually never wins and is never sent for psychological treatment in their younger years. Sexually abused people live as if there is a hollow in the pit of their very soul and sometimes it takes years to surface. They never really get over it, but with psychological counselling they can certainly live normal lives. Sexually abused people are also very guarded (to protect themselves) and thus, they may come off as being narcissistic, but they really aren't. They seldom mean to hurt others, but because of their sexual abuse they usually can't find a happy medium with a sexual partner. Trust is a big issue here. Marcy When you know better, you do better. If he's dealing with his past, there is no reason to continue the bad behavior in the present or the future. Tell him to keep it in his pants or dump him. It's just an excuse, not a reason if he keeps on cheating on you.
Should you confront a man you went out with a few times or just drop him with no explanation after you found out from a gay friend that he's been meeting men for sexual encounters online?
Answer Drop him no explaination. He's either gay, or an internet pervert.
Really? Are you KIDDING? There's simply no excuse for any woman getting pregnant if she doesn't want to be. Pick any of the numerous pills. Don't like pills? There's a… shot that lasts 3 months. There are IUDs. Any of the above could be had without him ever knowing. Though much less effective, there are diaghrams, creams, condoms... Make a "mistake" and worried? There's the "morning after" pill. The fact is that women have been "trapping" men with pregnancies for thousands of years, and THEY are the ones seeking "control." Surely you've seen enough of our system to know that it works -- all too well -- but it will result in misery for all concerned -- ESPECIALLY the child. Don't even think about it. Sounds to me like you'd be best off with NO boyfriend...
This sounds like sour grapes about people who have been caught in abusive relationships--like it is their choice. Of course, no one specifically seeks out someone who is abusi…ve. Actually, so many of the abusive mates are very charming and attractive (make you laugh, have fun, offer nice courtesies) in the beginning, which is so appealing. They just can't keep the facade when things get real, and there is commitment by the other person, so there is less incentive to mind their manners. Looking back, I can see several "what was That?" instances in my relationship. And that is the issue--we all go back to familiar behaviors unless we have had time out to have the insight to see ourselves as we are and to view our choices with more logic than emotion. A veteran of an abusive relationship needs to take things slow, observe the red flags (ie. did the person's ex leave them suddenly and without explanation? Are they quick to anger? Do they blame you for things you have no control over? etc.), and spend time with the other person in several different circumstances. If you can delay having sex with the new person and mixing those endorphins into the decision making, you will be better off. A good resource is the book by Patricia Evans--The Verbally Abusive Relationship.
When a man has been dumped by his girlfriend he reacts in a certain wayhow can one tell if he really loved her even after he has been dumpedhow will he react?
There is no set reaction to when a person is dumped. Every human is different and does different stuff in different sitations. But in a case like that it would depend on… How, Why, When and Where the deed is done.
What scripture or verse has when 2 men were praying and one of the men was talking bad about the other man and God answered the other man's prayer?
I think you are referring to the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector. It is found in Luke's gospel: Lk 18:9-14 He also told this parable to some who trust…ed in themselves that they were righteous and despised others: 10 "Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus to himself, 'God, I thank thee that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week, I give tithes of all that I get.' 13 But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, 'God, be merciful to me a sinner!' 14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted."
What if u like a boy a lot u might even love him but u guys have been friends 4 as long as 2nd grade what do u do 2 tell him that u want 2 further ur friendship but u dont want 2 look stupid doing it.?
Wow, that's deep. I found myself in the exact same position last year when i was in 7th grade. All you can do is say what you want to say. That's all you can do. J…ust come out and say it. A: we guys dont really mind depends on who he is im 12 year old just remember if you breakup yall might not be friends it happen to me never saw her again only cause she moved
Ask her? That's pretty much the only way to get an answer. The only other thing I could suggest would be to ask her friends or just snoop any of her "friend network" sites a…nd see who she talked to in the past. ^DISCLAIMER: I don't recommend the latter of the two options because they you can loose her trust and/or she will think youre crazy... you get the picture. Just be honest. P.S. Also ask yourself the questions.... DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW....and second...How many is too many? You can just ask her to tell you if its more than a certain number you select...if that's just to much than you can make a decision on what you want to do... GL!!! -Cuzzinz
VERY VERY VERY few
If ur not happy in ur relationship n you've been ignorant n a guy that likes u ask y ur acting like that n u tell him when this is ur bf's friend n he likes u then he says he dont want 2 know..y not?
He probably doesn't want to know because he has feelings for you, And the thought of someone else just liking you probably hurts him.
If u know ur the 1st and only mistress in a married mans life and he said u are going to be the last one to because its to much then how would that married man feel about his mistress if he said that?
Yes, in that married man just feel about his mistress. I guess that feeling his mistress' simply reality
Why would a married man tell u he cares about u because u have been friends for so long but end up cheating on his wife with u because he says he needs some excitement when ur his friends girlfriend?
Because he a hoe.
If a guy you have been seeing tells u ur so beautiful fun to be around and extremely sexy but when u ask him if he likes u he doesnt give u a straight answer why?
1. He is shy. 2. He is fearful of what might happen if he does reveal his feelings (usually this comes from an unfortunate past experience he has yet to get over.) 3. He m…ay be a religious man battling with temptation. 4. He may be bi-sexual and not ready to date women at this time.
If a guy told u ur fun to b around n ur beautiful but u dont talk 2 him 2 much u sent him an email told him u like him n wanted 2 know how he feels you know he read it but u never got anything back y?
cz he is 2 busy or has other thing on his mind at tht moment