Ur girlfriend has been sexually abused by 2 men and u found out that one of the men was the guy who lives with her aunt She has been to therapy but no one else knows about the 2nd man what shld u do?
Be there for her. This might be very hard for you to understand at first, but if she trusted you enough to tell you, than this should be something that will make your relationship stronger in the end, not tear it part. Some guys dont know how to take this information, because it is a big deal, and they'll distance themselves. All she needs is someone who understnds. If you love her, try to be this man.
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If your husband is a somatic narcissist and has been unfaithful with many women and men how does this relate to his sexual abuse as a child?
Answer . A person who has been sexually abused as a child doesn't even realize the damage has already occured mentally. Either the child will keep this abuse a secret or if… the family should find out it is kept secret. Either way the child usually never wins and is never sent for psychological treatment in their younger years.. Sexually abused people live as if there is a hollow in the pit of their very soul and sometimes it takes years to surface. They never really get over it, but with psychological counselling they can certainly live normal lives.. Sexually abused people are also very guarded (to protect themselves) and thus, they may come off as being narcissistic, but they really aren't. They seldom mean to hurt others, but because of their sexual abuse they usually can't find a happy medium with a sexual partner. Trust is a big issue here.. Marcy. When you know better, you do better. If he's dealing with his past, there is no reason to continue the bad behavior in the present or the future. Tell him to keep it in his pants or dump him. It's just an excuse, not a reason if he keeps on cheating on you.
Is it normal for someone who has been abused to be obsessively reading books on abusive men or looking at abuse websites trying to find that one thing that will put the abuser in his place?
Answer . It might be necessary to get the person in for therapy. If nothing else, the therapist might be able to get the abused person to leave the abusive relationship and… be a little less obsessive.
Most certainly. Men don't always leave because there is someone else although I suppose it's easier to believe that then believing they just don't want to be with us.
Help is available for all victims of Child Abuse. For more information on Male victims of child abuse see above related link.
You are 14 nd the skin on ur labia peels everyday. Have been sexually active but it happened before you had intercourse you r afraid of telling a doctor or parent cos u dont wnt them 2 know u had sex?
See a doctor. You could have some type of skin infection.. Yupp..see a doctor asap. tell them yo situation and you could easily tell yo doc you dont want ur mom or dad knowin… about this until you ready to tell them..
What if u like a boy a lot u might even love him but u guys have been friends 4 as long as 2nd grade what do u do 2 tell him that u want 2 further ur friendship but u dont want 2 look stupid doing it.?
\n. \nWow, that's deep. I found myself in the exact same position last year when i was in 7th grade. All you can do is say what you want to say. That's all you can do. Just c…ome out and say it.\n. \n. \nA: we guys dont really mind depends on who he is im 12 year old just remember if you breakup yall might not be friends it happen to me never saw her again only cause she moved
Homosexual men show their attraction to men in the same way that heterosexual women show their attraction to women. If they are young and/or inexperienced, they may become flu…stered and uncomfortable when talking to a male they find attractive. The more obvious signs are if they flirt with other men, spend time staring at other men's erogenous zones, or are caught masturbating to male pornography.
It means that his best defense for the shame he feels is to make you seem like the only one who turns him on THAT much....when, in fact, every/any gal in his past relationship…s is no strangerrr to his "one minute manhood".
Ask her? That's pretty much the only way to get an answer. The only other thing I could suggest would be to ask her friends or just snoop any of her "friend network" sites …and see who she talked to in the past. ^DISCLAIMER: I don't recommend the latter of the two options because they you can loose her trust and/or she will think youre crazy... you get the picture. Just be honest. P.S. Also ask yourself the questions.... DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW....and second...How many is too many? You can just ask her to tell you if its more than a certain number you select...if that's just to much than you can make a decision on what you want to do... GL!!! -Cuzzinz
Most girls who are sexually abused are drawn to men because they are afraid of what other girls will think and also how they will judge them and blame them and most men will n…ot... also girls like to watch men make mistakes and by beign around them it is easier ti see them.
Contrary to common legend, most people who have actually been abused have memories of it. The "repressed memory" idea has largely been discredited as false "memories" brought …about by poorly-thought out questioning. If you have concerns about vague memories when you were a child, etc., be sure to find a therapist who specializes in childhood trauma to help you explore them. People have gone to prison over the false memory issue, so you want to be sure that your recollections are accurate, for your own sake and the sake of the other party as well.
We cannot speak for all abusive men, but we assume that most of them know that they are abusers. Abusive men tend to come from abusive homes, and the behavior may seem normal …to them. Others may feel that such behavior is their right. Most of them know the law, but when rage strikes, the law often doesn't mean much.
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If ur not happy in ur relationship n you've been ignorant n a guy that likes u ask y ur acting like that n u tell him when this is ur bf's friend n he likes u then he says he dont want 2 know..y not?
He probably doesn't want to know because he has feelings for you, And the thought of someone else just liking you probably hurts him.
Why would a married man tell u he cares about u because u have been friends for so long but end up cheating on his wife with u because he says he needs some excitement when ur his friends girlfriend?
Because he a hoe.
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Tell god to suck it because he isn't real. Sorry.