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There are number of things you shouldn't say to an autistic individual.
Don't judge them as lazy, antisocial, or selfish or stubborn.
Don't say to them "you don't look autistic" or "you seem normal" because they know you think they're lying that they have autism. Most people say people with autism unable to communicate. There are some people with autism who can communicate.
Don't say to them "you seem very high-functioned" Verbal autistic individuals can have their struggles also almost as bad as non verbal autistic individual.
Don't compare an autistic person as a normal person. There are most autistic individuals that don't want to be compared to normal people.
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∙ 7y ago
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∙ 7y agoThere are quite a number of things you shouldn't say to an autistic person, even if they don't mind being different. "You don't look autistic" or "you seem normal". That will offend autistic people who know how to communicate, because they tried passing for normal to avoid being bullied or judged in different ways, but some don't mind being what they are. "You seem very high-functioning". Just because some autistic people are high-functioning doesn't mean we're smarter than low-functioned autistics. We do have struggles more than most neurotypicals (normal people). We are not easy with change. Don't compare an autistic person as a normal person. Our brains think differently than normal people. Don't accuse autistic people as spoiled, selfish, antisocial or lazy. Many autistics are the opposite of that. One thing is you shouldn't say stuff about sex and marriage (most autistics are not interested in those topics and prefer to stay single). Don't say their unique behavior is the one causing problems for other people-they can't think like a normal person. They are not trying to cause problems for people around them and make their lives miserable. Don't tell them "can you please not rock back and forth, spin or flap your hands in public? It's embarrassing." Most autistics don't do facial expressions and stimming is a way of expressing themselves as long as they're not hurting anyone or themselves.
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What are some things you shouldn't do to autistic people?
Anything you shouldn't do to "ordinary" people.
How long does it take for some people to become Autistic if they quit talking and why?
A person cannot become Autistic, people are born Autistic. Not talking is not necessarily a sign of Autism either, many autistic people are non-verbal but not all and there are other reasons for people not talking.
What careers can and cannot autistic people have?
Autistic people can have any career they want, we're as capable as neurotypical people.In some places Autistic people may not be able to serve I military or police force, although do bare in mind many Autistic people are not diagnosed so may join without knowing or without disclosing they're Autistic.
Who are autistic children?
Autism is a disability. Its a communication problem making them speak in monotone voices, they have no empathy, have to be taught communication skills and body language skills, because their wiring for communication is damaged or dead. They can sometimes be in a world of their own and have learning difficulties although intelligent. Some autistic people are geniuses who are savants.There are many different types of autism. All autistic people are seen as weird. All autistic people have repetitive behaviors but can be stopped and have obsessions of things but they can't be replaced. There are many different types of autism, some have a phobia of speaking. They are physically normal and for some normally intelligent. They can't help being autistic.
Can people get pets even though they have autism?
Yes, autistic people can have pets and often prefer animals to people. As long as a person is able to care for a pet, whether autistic or not, then they can get a pet - some autistic people also have pets as support animals for comfort and company.
Why don't some autistic people like being called normal?
Some people with autism have tried passing for normal because of being bullied or judged in the past. And they knew later on how it affected them. Being normal can block out our energy and can drain out everything in us. If we were being normal everyday, we would be boring. Some autistic people don't mind being called normal. But for some, they do find it offensive-same with me. Because they think that's how neurotypical people would approve of them. Autistic people should not be ashamed of being autistic-even I'm not. If some people don't approve their autistic behavior-it's mostly their problem. Autistic people shouldn't try to be someone that they truly aren't to impress other people and so people around them wouldn't feel embarresed.
Does autism have a required diet?
No, autism doesn't have a required diet. However autistic people are up to six times more likely to suffer digestive problems so some autistic people may have specififc dietary requirements and changes to diet can ease some autism symptoms. Some autistic people also have sensory issues which makes some food uncomfortable to deal with, for example some autistic people may be especially sensitive to the sound and feeling of crunchy foods.
Who wears titey whities?
Some people wear boxers and some people wear 'breifs' it shouldnt really matter
Do autistic people sleep well?
A lot of Autistic people have severe sleeping problems. Autistic people tend to have lower levels of melatonin which is the chemical responsible for telling the body when to sleep, Autistic people can often get caught-up in what they're doing so lose track of time, Executive Dysfunction can make it hard to keep a bedtime routine, and Autism people often have problems 'turning off' their brain in order to sleep. Some autistic people have no problems, but most Autistic people will experience sleeping problems at least once during their lives.
Why can't some autism people talk?
You can hear Autistic people simply by listening to them - whether they talk verbally or communicate via other means. The organisation Autism Speaks has the tagline 'It's time to listen' but they refuse to listen to autistic people...you can't hear unless you listen, and that's when problems arise with people seeking to 'help' autistic people when they don't know what autistic people need or want.
What are some things about autism?
Autism is a neurological difference, just like skin color or eye color this is a normal human variation and Autistic people are not inferior to neurotypical people. Autism is a spectrum, thus there is a wide range of symptoms and severity among Autistic people, symptoms and severity can also change in an Autistic person throughout their lives e.g. more severe in childhood or during times of stress in their lives.
Do autistic people take special medicine?
No, autistic people do not take special medicine. There is no one treatment for autism, some autistic people may take certain medications for certain aspects of their autism or comorbid conditions such as depression or anxiety, but there is no one specific medication for autis.
