What can i say after i say I'm sorry?

Answer 1

After you say sorry to a female especially...you should say why you're sorry, (i.e. you're crying and it didn't occur to me that that would happen) then you should list the things you should've done instead (i.e. I should have told you, confronted you, asked you etc) then say why you didn't do those things (i.e. i thought i would get into more trouble, i thought it would upset you, i was trying to protect you) then after that you have to say why you can see how you made the wrong decision again, but in relation to how you realise what you shouldve done, then after that you have to repeat the process depending on how upset the other person is...then after that you should say sorry again, but don't say it too much and if you want to say sorry more that a million times start figuring out ways to say it that don't involve the actual word sorry. Then you have to ask seriously what you can do to make it better, then you have to (before they speak) list the things you would do to make them happy or to fix the problem the best you can, really think about this step because to start off you will HAVE to list things that may actually fix the problem no matter how hard or uncomfortable they are for you, then once you list the serious things list a few "joke" things like, "ill wash ur car dressed like jessica Simpson in that dukes of hazzard movie, or ill kid nap every cat in the neighbour hood and teach them to sing a song ill write you about how sorry i am in harmony, and after a few joke ones, re enforce how sorry you really are and briefly repeat the first lot of actions...this SHOULD fix the imediate problem, but just remember that once she is happy for that day etc, it doesnt mean she's happy forever, she will probably think about it or be reminded and bring it all back up, and this is why you should only ever say sorry if you really are because you will show her how un-sorry you are if you get angry at her for getting upset again over it. After AAAAALLL of that, you should work on what ever you did to make the person upset, and get advice on what actions are similar in behaviour so you can avoid them and in turn avoid more icky apologies. NOTE: This is written by a female, and im completely serious in every section. This is what has had to be done when somebody has really upset me and i wont accept their initial apology...it should work, but it depends on what you did and not how wonderful your apology is. So if you killed her cat...i doubt this will help you at all, maybe she might reply to ur messages but good luck going out fotr lunch with her.