What do you do if a pregnant woman gets mad and hits you all the time and calls the police?

Answer 1

== == == == == == == == The answer is pretty simple: LEAVE !!! Do you think that it will get better? It won't! Do you think that she will stop after the baby is born? SHE WON'T! I promise you that you will end up in jail either falsely accused, or because you finally "lost it". Plenty of guys pay child support to a woman who deserves to be alone, but NO ONE ever deserves to be abused. Of course she will have mood swings as a pregnant woman, but your boundaries must have a base threshold: no physical abuse, no breaking things, and no police. If she doesn't like it, then she can do without you. You deserve humane treatment! I don't care if she is the princess, and you are the hunchback of Notre Dame, you need the emotional fortitude to say, "Good luck with that! See Ya!" When her behavior is acceptable, you must be very disciplined to reward it with affection, help, emotional reassurance, foot massages, midnight runs for odd food combinations, or whatever a pregnant woman needs, however, when you get the signal that she is losing control, protect your boundaries, freedom, body and sanity by removing yourself as quickly as possible, and recording the process of your escape. Return after she has calmed down. If you are not there, then you cannot be guilty or arrested. Think ahead. Have a plan. It would also be helpful to have a small tape recorder or digital camera in your pocket with a "movie" function in it, so that you can press record at the very instant that you sense an episode approaching. In ANY case, it is to your advantage to make sure that whenever the police arrive, that you are the most calm, collected, and logical person there, that you possess evidence and/or witnesses, and obviously that you are totally submissive to the police and are relying on them to protect you. If you continually repeat the behavioral pattern of leaving the house EVERY time her behavior begins to be abusive, then you will condition her to stop it. If you have to sleep somewhere else too often, just get a new place, and let her fend for herself.

You are physically stronger than her, so you are not being forced to stay. The only reason that you are being abused is because of your lack of self esteem, poor planning, and poor personal boundaries. It needs to be very clear to her that you will not tolerate this behavior, and that you have the emotional strength to walk away in this very moment. She's pregnant, so you win; she needs you more than you need her. You can use your strength to leave, but it will require the logical realization that you hold the power, and the healthy fortitude to make the decision to walk away from abuse. If you don't have firmly established boundaries with her now, then one of you will eventually grow in disrespect for the other to the point of withdrawal or cheating. When one partner withdraws, the other cheats. Poor boundaries will doom the relationship to codependency, failure, and heartbreak. You have to be willing to reject her, if necessary, in order to bring about the mutual respect required to enjoy the state of emotional health that will allow your relationship to last.

If the woman is your wife or girlfriend, never hit her.Stay calm..There are so many questions that can be asked for this particular situation. Is she always this abusive? What caused her to lose her temper to hit? If you absolutely did not provoke the situation, I would tell her in a calm voice that you are going to go into another room or outside while she composes herself and then you come back and try to talk rationally with her. Your best bet is to stay focused on being calm with her. You need to talk to someone who is going to help advise you on how to handle such a situation.Being that she is pregnant, she might be feeling depression knowing a new baby is on the way. On your part, maybe putting your arms around her gently and hugging her and tell her that she is very important and that you want to be a part of her and the baby. Try helping her with household chores, I know as a woman, that I never got hugged while I was pregnant. I was yelled at, I was verbally abused.Women love to be held and told that we are loved. I understand that men have a hard time showing that.If you have done everything that you know to do to help her in any way and she still gets physical, you may have to get legal advice on how to handle it, in order to keep both of you safe.You do not deserve to be hit. There are many abusive women and they have no more rights to be abusive than a man, but when it comes to a third party (the baby) the men have to be very careful in how they handle the situation. No one deserves to be abused, no one. No one has the right to hurt another human being. That situation is very delicate.If she is getting really angry and hitting while she is pregnant, will she abusive as a mother? There are a lot of things to think about in this situation. Note added from the Police: Very first line says, "If the woman is your wife or girlfriend, never hit her." - Honestly, even if she's not your wife or girlfriend, pregnant with your child or not... it's probably still not a good idea to hit her. Legally, it's NEVER a good idea to hit a woman. I'd say kick her in the stomach...but I'm a horrible person and nothing I say should be taken into consideration.