What do you do when family and friends hate him and are angry with you for believing him when he says he has not cheated on you?

Answer 1

Love is BLIND. Your family and your friends obviously care and love you very much. This kind of truth hurts. If you continue on this path of denial, it will only continue to get worse. You need to get real and deal with reality. Ask your self the question, why are so many of my loved ones concerned about my well being. There is a reason and the reason is you are covering up for someone who does not respect or love you, otherwise he would not be continueing this path. If it is for security reasons, ie., financial, or lack of education, this is not a reason you should continue with a relation ship. You are problebly scared. In the back of your mind you and only you know the truth. Make a plan, execute the plan, get educated, and start your new life. Life is to short for this type of a toxic relation ship. The only one that can make you happy is you. That's a good start. Cheaters do lie. I hate to say it, but the one I dealt with had a classic line, "I want my cake and I want to eat it too." If he doesn't want to lose the comfort of your life together, he very well might lie, especially if the bulk of your social life together is founded much more upon your family than it is upon his. Cheating is cowardly behavior, as is lying.