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It's one of the hardest choices and things you'd ever do, but believe me it have to be done. your gonna have to leave your abuser because if he doesn't get help and admit what he's doing to you he's gonna keep doing it.

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Q: What should you do if you're in an emotionally abusive relationship on and off again for 4 years and you keep coming back but you're not strong enough to leave because of your mental state?
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