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What should you do if you are living with someone who is living out her past domestic violence and how do you stop the ongoing abuse to yourself?
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∙ 15y ago
When someone who has been in any type of abusive relationship and they do not seek psychological counselling they will never get over it. She is full of rage and anger at the previous person and had absolutely no control to stop it. What she doesn't know is she has stopped it to a degree, because you sound like a nice guy. Unfortunately, because she obviously has not had any psychological treatment she is still in a rage mode and you are the one taking the brunt of it. In her mind a man in NEVER going to control her again. I suggest that you sit with her and give her this option: "I love you, I want to be with you always, but you need some psychological counselling to deal with your past. I'll go with you as support if you like. If you refuse, then I am leaving!" She may have a hissy fit and tell you to leave and she may even leave, but unless she gets this help she will destroy her future and you as well. Good luck Marcy
I was in an abusive relationship for quite a while. I didn't date for a few years after I left him. Once I started dating I was so dysfunctional and could not handle the fact that the guy I was dating was not like the guy that hurt me. I didn't even realize what the problem was until my new (nice) bf left me. Finally I went to counseling. That helped some, I still have issues but I don't take it out on my significant other anymore. Counseling is crucial, the sooner the better.
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Where can someone view domestic violence pictures?
Domestic violence pictures can be found by looking up the term 'Domestic violence pictures' in google images, which has thousands of pictures about the topic. They can also be found at the website photobucket.
Is a domestic disturbance and domestic violence the same thing?
no disturbance is like you disturbing others now domestic violence is when you go and beat someone up or hit someone else
Can someone with a domestic violence charge or conviction be a cop?
It is highly unlikely.
Is grabbing someone's face domestic violence?
Assault is defined as ANY un-wanted touching. If the person's face you "grabbed" was a familiy member or significant other, then that is Domestic Assault/Violence.
Can you sue someone for making a movie about a domestic violence attack that you were involved in?
If they used you name without consent.
What is the most common domestic violence defense?
The most common domestic violence defense is self-defense. This is when someone hurts another because they were trying to protect themselves. Another defense commonly used is mutual combat.
What advice can you give someone who is involved in domestic violence?
Get out. Leave now. Find a friend or a refuge and stay out of the way. Tell the police as soon as possible. Do not get tricked into accepting excuses or lies.Let them know that there is help available. There's probably nothing you yourself can say to someone in that situation. Direct them to one of the programs designed to remedy these sorts of problems.In the US this is the number to callNational Domestic Violence Hotline 1−800−799−SAFE (7233)
What is intervention concerning domestic violence?
You have to be careful when intervening in a domestic violence relationship. You cant help someone who doesn't want to be helped and you may even make it worse. You must take all precautions not to anger the perpetrator and make him or her suspicious that you may be trying to intervene. Give the victim the national domestic violence hot-line number: 1-800-650-6522. This will direct them to someone in their area that can help.
Can someone convicted of domestic violence purchase firearms?
Generally, no. For further information, look up the "Lautenberg Amendment."
Can someone with a domestic violence dismissal become a commissioned officer?
If the charge was dismissed, yes, they probably are eligible for commissioning.
Can someone with a class a misdeamenor aggrevated assault own a firearm?
Not if the assault was on a family member- known as Domestic Violence.
Can someone convicted of a misdemeanor buy a gun?
For the most part, yes, although anything related to domestic violence will disqualify them.
