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You should confront him about it and make sure your assumption is true. If it is true then you may want to leave him since they usually say that "once a cheater is always a cheater." If you give him a second chance, he may just cheat on you again and then you end up by getting hurt even more.
AND IF HE IS tell him to suck ya mum cause she will take a young guy
AND IF HE IS tell him to suck ya mum cause she will take a young guy
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Absoulutely, you may think he does not know, but trust me he does, even if he just thinks 'somethings not been right', he knows, if you suddenly now give him some attention ec…t again he will pick up on that and although he will be happy about the attention he will realise that there has been another 'sea-change', this will lead to a confirmation of significant problems, your communication will suffer and the marriage will die a slow painful death, you are kidding your self if you think that you can have an affair withought consequences, no matter the reason for the affair, if you still want to be with your husband then end the affair and be brave enough to come clean, if not then be a decent human being and let him out of his misery, with an explanation so that you don't leave him with emotional scarring, be brave!!! if you come clean, you treat him with dignity and respect by giving him the choice to make his own decision of whether he wants to stay with you or not. you run the risk of losing him, but if you don't come clean, you're kind of being manipulative and no one deserves to be manipulated. is he the kind of person who would WANT the truth? ANSWER!!!!! I cheated on my husband, back before we were married and I came clean...it was with an ex and it was a one time thing and i left the choice to stay or go in his hands and not ripped it from him as a selfish person would. He chose to stay, he respected and appreciated that i told him the truth and we got married! so sometimes these things work out. Another thing though is once again i am cheating "well having an affair" but my "mistress" as its called is his brother. It depends on the situation. that is one circumstance that i have not told him about. choice is yours. make it the way you see fit. personally I believe that "depending on the situation" if you end it, make right with a higher being "if you have one and are not atheist" and you treat your spouse good here on out...then you make peace with yourself and those you have harmed . that it wouldn't matter what you had done, it matters if your still doing it. God bless.
What should you do if you've been in love with a guy for over 4 years and you just found out he cheated on you for a month but he asked you to go out with him?
Answer . \nHe's cheated on you for more than 4 months. Why on earth would you want to stay with a guy that cheats on you? Once a person cheats you can never trust them ag…ain. Even if you managed to stay together you would never trust him again so what kind of life is that?\n. \nNo, I would not go out with him and, in fact, I'd tell him to "hit the road and not let the door slam him in the butt on the way out!" I wouldn't waste one more minute with this guy. I too had a cheating partner and I did just what I told you to do. Now I've ended up with a great guy and we've been married a very long time. You deserve better, but until you think you do, your life is going to be nothing but misery.\n. \nWhen a man/woman allows their partner to cheat they have lost all dignity and you've given the green light for them to play the cheating game at your expense.\n. \nGet strong and stay strong!\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy
How can you tell if the guy you've been seeing for 7 months is in love with you if he doesn't say it?
Answer You can't tell for sure, even if he says it, he might be lying. Guys do this all the time. If you love him, tell him you do, and see how he responds. T…his should tell you something. But best to look at how he treats you. Does he treat you with respect, as though you're important to him, as though he likes you and enjoys your company. Is he kind to you before, during and after sex, or is he just interested in you for sex? Does he consider your needs and interests, is he interested in what you have to say. Is he honest and faithful, or does he lie to you and flirt with other girls? Good luck.
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If you are 18 years old and you move out with a guy you've been seeing for a couple of months what are the chances of having a long-term relationship?
More than likely your relationship will not last, especially if he is the one supporting you. You think you have freedom from living from your parents but know you are under s…omeone else's thumb. You have to depend on him and as soon as he realizes this he will control your world. I don't think that it will last too long, but i may be wrong about it. it depends on if you both want a long term relation ship or not... or how long you guys have known each other and how stong your feelings are for each other Moving in with someone after knowing them for two months is generally a really bad idea. It can take a year or more just to get to know someone well enough to understand whether you want a full-time replationship. Enduring the challenges and learning experiences of cohabitating while getting to know the real person at the same time isn't a great recipe for success. Maybe you should think about actual dating, which allows people to get to know each other, before living as a couple.
If you've been seeing a guy for a long time and he's become very protective of you but says he needs time should you hold on and wait?
He obviously cares a lot for you, but be wary. If he is jealous when other guys talk to you or he wants to know where you are all the time or he doesn't like you to go out wit…h girlfriends then it's a control issue and not so much protection (I'm not accusing him of this) but making you aware it's possible. "You" have to give him the ultimatum to decide pretty quick if your relationship is good enough to settle down and perhaps marry and you should let him know that. Some guys are just terrified of marriage (isn't any different than living together for 6 months to a year when in many States and Canada you are considered the same as married). If marriage is what you want in the future tell him in your discussion that you can plan it together and it could be a small ceremony, or you could go somewhere you both like to get married and keep it really small. Try just sitting down and communicating and asking him how he feels about it all. If you don't like his answer tell him that if you love someone then you really want to be together for a future and you're not going to wait around as you've been going together long enough. Some men don't mean it, but they are so frightened of marriage they would rather just leave things as they are and not make a commitment. That doesn't mean they don't love the person.If you want to see some fast action one way or the other give him a short time to make up his mind and if he doesn't then split-up from him and start going out with friends and dating. Sometimes people don't know how good they've got it until they've lost it and hopefully your boyfriend is one of these guys. By waiting around for him to decide (which could be never) you are robbing yourself of the future you want.When I met my husband he was fairly shy at first. We'd gone together almost 4 years and he hadn't popped the question to me. We got along well and had so much fun. I discussed a future together and made it clear I was not the type of girl who wanted to live together and be tied down without commitment. He was evasive and uncomfortable regarding marriage. So, I split-up with him. It hurt my heart and I missed him so much, but it was a risk I had to take. The months dragged on and then 6 months later we were in the same wedding party. I thought my heart would pop out and roll across the carpet. I honestly didn't know how he felt. I'd been in the dating circuit again and obviously thought he had been, but he'd brought no one to the wedding and neither did I. It was only a week later he phoned me up and asked me out, but added "I'm still not ready for commitment." I said, "I still feel the same about commitment and you aren't going to get the milk free without buying this cow!" LOL He was stunned and he had a choice. Thank heavens he mustered up the courage to commit and we did get back together and after we went together another 3 months he got down on one knee and proposed marriage! I just wanted a quiet ceremony at the Justice of the Peace (for two reasons: I'd been married before and I also wanted to make the process of getting married less painful for him) and go on a nice honeymoon together, but it was "my fiance" that wanted to be married in the Church Chapel and we had the best private wedding bash at his parent's home. The party was so good we didn't want to leave! LOLI shared my above story because I know you are going to get the odd poster that will tell you to dump this guy, but some guys are just plain shy and scared of commitment and sometimes it takes a little time to convince them if you are sure you love each other. Marriage should be taken seriously. It's important for you to take the risk like I did and split-up so it gives you both time to know what you both want. Hopefully, your dreams will come true.Good luckMarcy
If you've been in love with a guy for 4 years and was never able to be with him for and now he has moved to another country how can you make him see you are meant to be together?
Answer What were the reasons that you couldn't be with him before? People can end relatinships, get divorces and start dating. People can have long distance re…lationships and make eventual plans to relocate and be together. If both people truly wanted to be together in a committed relationship, even outside impediments wouldn't prevent them for 4 years. It may be, after 4 years, that you are clinging to "what might have been"--an idealized romance with all your hopes realized, with only the good elements--rather than the reality of a long distance relationship with a normal, imperfect person who may have not reciprocated your feelings. If anything, you're doing a disservice to yourself. Instead of wanting someone who is currently and has always been impossible to be with, get out and find someone who will want to be with you in the here and now.
How do you tell your husband that you've been cheating on him with his best friend for the last 10 years and you've been married for 10 years?
Answer You don't; if you love your husband just stop cheating; if you don't love you husband, tell him you don't love him and file for a divorce.
Who should you go with ex boyfriend who you've been with for 3 years but who cheated on you or a man who is married but wants to leave his wife for you?
Answer Neither! Why would you want someone like that! If the man is married dont you wonder if he will do the same to you! why go with someone who cheated on you …if he's bound to do it again! Once a cheater always a cheater!
This will depend on you and what are the stories behind it. There's a few ways you can tell and sense if your spouse is been cheating on you. The cell phone can not be found …laying around the house and it's always on vibrate or silence. Your spouse stop having sex with you maybe he wanted more sex lately because of the new experience his having with the other person. Just read his body language, if he or she acts differently that will be one of the sign..
Really there is nothing that you can do, except go out and have fun and try to forget him. He has found something in this girl that is what he wants and it is tough, but… you need to accept it and move on. If you were serious on him, he obviously was not that serious with you, so you dont need him. It is not your fault, he just wants something different to you. So dont go and try and change yourself for him, just go out with your mates and have fun, you will soon forget him.
What should you do if theres a guy who says he's going to treat you right and you've been in a relationship with a different guy for four years but aren't happy?
Always do what is best for you and don't stay in any situation that you are not happy in as its not good for you or fair to that other person. With that being said jumpi…ng from one long term relationship and then into another is also not good for either person you have to allow yourself some time between relationships.
Just because he rejected u dosent mean the world is over. be urself around him and maybe he will ask u out.
What should i do about this guy we have been seeing each other for a year but he still doesn't want to be with me?
ask why and take some time 4 him to decide
How long should you wait for a guy that you've been seeing and says he loves you but does not want to date right now?
I don't know if you should wait at all. If he loves you why doesn't he want to date? Get yourself out there and experience other things because you will never know what you co…uld miss if you hang around waiting. Tell him that you'll be there when he is ready but in the mean time you are not sitting around.
What should i do with a guy that i been with for three years on and offwe both love each other but he cheated on me i took him back what should i do?
You should be fine to him, he'll not cheat you again, trust me... And if he does, wait some time before you accept him again and he'll learn his lesson FOREVER