What would a married man be thinking when he got caught cheating and stopped talking to the mistress for now but he sees her everyday at work?
He would be thinking about the mistress all the time and want her real bad.
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Why would a married man tell his mistress that he doesnt want to talk to her after he got caught cheating when she's been his long time friend for years and he sees her at work everyday?
Because the guy loves his wife enough to break it off with you.
If a married man got caught cheating but yet he sees his mistress everyday at work but yet doesnt talk 2 his mistress unless she talks 2 him first what goes through his head when he sees her?
That he wishes he had never been caught so he could still have both of you. And how he wishes you weren't there any more as a reminder of what he is too scared to pursue any m…ore. You really need to ask the man himself that question. Although there may be some informed opinions, no one can read your friend's mind.
Why would a married man not call his mistress when he sees her at work everyday after being caught cheating is it because he'd be tempted to cheat with her again?
That could be a contributory factor. Its just possible that he is done with all the cheating and doesn't want to to repeat such mistakes. Once you have slept with someone once…, its easy to do it again. Also, his wife might have forbidden him to contact the lady in question and he would want to save his marriage. Personally, i think bygones should be bygones. Leave the man alone to enjoy his marriage and forget about the past and trying to contact him.
After a married man gets caught cheating and stops contact with his mistress even though he sees her at work everyday does he still think about having sex with her and how often from a man's view?
Depends on the man, Some men think about it all day, others just think about it with one person, often the one they love. If you have any doghts go threw therapy with a SHRINK…. It help's the woman feel "able to trust him" and the man to feel "I was stupid to cheat". This will also help find the true answer that led him to cheat and offer a solution to the cause...
Does a married man think about his mistress after he stops seeing her because he got caught cheating and if so how often?
it depends how close you were before you caught him cheating
Does a married man think about his mistress at all since he had to stop seeing her because he got caught cheating?
no he thinks about his x ~and~ From my point of view I would think so because he didn't stop messing around with his mistress, he was caught and possibly forced to. …He would not have if he was not caught. Know that and don't let that pass out of your mind. Sounds as if you deserve someone a lot better than a man who doesn't care to treat the woman he married and said was the woman of life as if she is nothing. :(. The truth being what else and who else should he being thinking about beside his wife. So if not you, he is very wrong. I hope for the best for you, you deserve better. Truthfully. :) ANSWER: Definitely and if your husband is telling you different, he is lying because he wants to make sure that if you don't know he will be safe. But from my own experience, I did discovered my husband's affair to a married woman he met on a dating site. For 2 and half months he called her non stop, 24/7. This man that I married was obsess towards her, he rather sleep 2-3 a night as long as he can hear her voice. But unfortunately I discovered it, so he stop. But I do know it was hard for him, not hearing her voice. He was restless and acting like he lost his best friend. So believe me, married men who got caught cheating do have a hard time forgetting the mistress.
How would a married man feel knowing he told his mistress when he sees her he thinks about what they did even though the affair stopped because they both got caught cheating?
This married man probably feels consumed with guilt because they both did get caught. Understandably, it's not easy to see the person one was cheating with in the same way one… used to, whether it's over or not.
If a married man works with his ex mistress and after he caught got cheating he stopped talking her and if he needed something at work he would get his friend 2 ask her but now he ask her himself why?
Because he wants to see if her reaction shows that any more love for him is still there.
Does a married man ever think about his ex mistress when he stopped seeing her because he got caught cheating especially when he sees her at work everyday but yet stayed with wife?
it depends what the person is like. yes if he really cared about you. ANSWER: I think it depends on the married man, there are married men that become obsess towards his m…istress because she is the first woman he slept with other than his wife. When and if this happens the married man become more into this other woman. There are some married man including my ex also becomes obsess with his mistress that he can't start his day without calling him first thing in the morning, and he can not go to bed without calling her first just to hear her voice. So the answer is yes there are some married men that do missed the time that he spent with his mistress after he got caught..
Why would a married man not talk to his ex mistress now knowing he wanted to before he got caught cheating when he said he cared about her?
Mistresses come under the heading of 'a kept woman.' Keeping a woman means the man in question is generally sexually attracted to her; may ply her with gifts; take her out or …keep her hidden (depending on the man.) Of course he wanted you before because he wanted excitement and sex in his life and was most likely bored being with his wife. Mistresses should learn that a married man will say anything to get what they want and either they grow weary of the mistress (few men who cheat and have a mistress ever marry that mistress) or, his wife was not putting up with his unfaithfulness and going for a divorce in which case he could stand to lose much such as the house; not seeing any children they may have; he would have to pay her alimony and possibly child support. Instead of feeling safe going after married men it is better to date single men and know there may be some future for you. Learn from this relationship and realize that you can have a much better life ahead of you if you choose too. This man has made his choice and it is best you move on.
Why would a married man stop talking to his ex mistress after he got caught cheating when he told her he wants to talk to her but can't right now and hasn't talk to her for 4 mths now?
Because he is more interested in maintaining his marriage than in keeping the mistress. After four months, it's pretty clear that he wants the mistress to go away and not b…other him any more. He will very likely cheat again. Just not with the same mistress. He'll want someone his wife doesn't know about. Time for the ex-mistress to move on. When she finds someone who really loves her (and doesn't just go through the motions) she will realize what a jerk her ex "friend" really is.
If a married man stops talking to his ex mistress after he got caught cheating then why does he still look at her at work then turns away when you catch him?
Nothing prevents a man from feeling lust toward people with whom he does not speak. When he looks, the man's primal urges are stirring. He is still physically attracted to hi…s ex mistress. It is all very Freudian. His Id is in overdrive. However, he has a rational side of his personality that knows that his behavior is wrong and self destructive. He will destroy his marriage if he actions his primal urge. It is the classic image of the little devil on one shoulder and the little angel on the other. He has to deny and/or suppress these urges. At the very least he has to keep them within the boundaries of look but don't touch or look but do not engage. It is frustrating and confusing for all involved but it is what it is.
If a married man stopped talking to his ex mistress only because he got caught cheating and he was ignoring her for 4mths but now you see him stare at her a lot why the sudden change?
The man hasn't looked at the woman for a while because he is afraid that he will be caught again. However now he feels as if enough time has passed that no one will notice if …he looks at the woman. He most likely wants to be with the woman again, because he is on a sort of withdraw from being with her.
How would a married man feel knowing he sees his ex mistress everyday at work he hasn't talk 2 her since he got caught cheating but they were good friends b4 the affair started?
they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.
If a married man got caught cheating and stopped talking to his mistress does he still think about her?
He most likely does. He probably isn't talking to his mistress because of the fact he got caught but this doesn't mean he's not trying to forget about her. .
It could be that this married man don't want to loose his mistress, even though that his affair is been discovered. No one can force him to stop except his wife or family, but… if he ignores the wishes of his wife I think its time for him to think about moving out of the house. If his only thinking about himself and not what his wife he need to make a decision whether his marriage is more important that what he had with his mistress. No woman or man deserve this kind of treatment. One way or the other someone has to make a decision and this married man can not be trusted. If you are the wife, its time for you to think about you, nobody elses.
If a married man got caught cheating and then he stopped talking to his mistress and never made eye contact at her at work for about 3-4 mths why now does she catch him looking at her?
The heat is off , and his eye is roving again. This guy cheated on his wife, chances are he will cheat on his mistress eventually if she gets in that situation again. Stay awa…y from married men and find yourself a good honest man.