Why are you gay?

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  • It's probably combination of environment and genetics, or perhaps God blessed you.
  • No one is really clear on why people are gay, same with not knowing why people are straight.
  • Generally speaking, it is believed that being gay or straight (or whatever) is a matter of genes or birth order--every time a woman has a boy her next son is more likely to be gay.
  • Because you were born that way. You didn't (and still don't) have a choice in the matter the same as you don't have a choice in being a human being. It's just who you are.
  • Because you think that the gender you are is fit! There's nothing wrong with that! You are perfect! Some people say no one is perfect, I say every one is, it who you are and you are the most important person in the world!
  • I am not sure you are gay. Some people that are gay walk different talk different and dress different and are not scared to be gay. yeah but we boys expect bangtan bae are gay; bangtan has a wife!

For that question i have a question for you: Why are you straight? Because you think the opposite sex is hot. That comes naturally and so does thinking that the same sex is attractive for homosexuals. It comes naturally and it's not like it's anything you can change.
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How can you be gay?

Generally, you are either gay or you are not. Current thinking isthat you are born gay. If people are born gay, then they haveabsolutely no control over this attraction. Heter

If you are gay what do you do?

You do the same thing that a straight person would do. You liveyour life to the fullest, struggle with daily obstacles, andpursuit happiness. Being gay doesn't have to represe

Do you have to be gay?

If you are gay, then you have to be gay. It's not a choice. Youare either born gay or you are not. The choice is in how you handle it. You can choose a happy life ofliving op

Who is gay?

people who are physically and/or emotionally attracted to members of the same gender are gay.

Will you be gay?

Being gay is up to you its what ever you want to be if you like girls if you like guys. Its who you are. Being gay is when you like the same sex just and FYI

What is a gay-out?

Being gay and out means that it is not a secret that you are gay

What do you do if you you are gay?

If you just realizing you are gay the first steps are acceptingyourself. Sometimes it can be hard to just accept yourself for whatyou are. After you have accepted yourself it

Who can be gay?

Anyone. About 5% of the population is gay, so it is less commonthan left-handedness. Studies have shown that homosexuality appears to be a semi-raregenetic trait. A person is

What if your not gay?

Then... you're just not gay. Some people are. Maybe you aren't. In this day and age, it shouldn't really matter. Labels suck. Don't use labels to limit your feelings.

We are gay?

We're glad you are getting comfortable with the idea.

Why not be gay?

It is not something you can decide. It is just that you develop (sexual) feelings for the same sex. This is not a problem at all. It does not hurt anybody.

What if you are not gay?

If you are not gay, then you probably won't date someone of thesame gender as yourself. Other than that, there is not muchdifference between being gay and not being gay.