Two possibilities: 1. He doesn't feel that anything needs closure. Maybe he's willing to just walk away. 2. Denial. If he believes that he can still control you by refusing to do as you wish, he may think that he can keep the relationship going. Maybe he's just thinking that he can keep you from going or maybe that you don't really want to. Remember that abuse is about control. He wants to control you at least as much as be your boyfriend.
No.
No
Because he is abusive. Partner abuse is a treatable sickness, but not always curable. Staying with an abusive partner does not help them to become a better person.
Yes
no they well be like that fot the rest of ther life Abusive people are abusive to whomever will allow it. They are elusive and once in their realm, they start abusing...not matter who the partner is.
Absolutely, and hopefully for a long time.
No
Multiplexing
The term for a person who dominates a conversation is "domineering" or "overbearing." They tend to control the discussion and may not allow others to participate equally.
A man like this is an abusive, control freak and you should get rid of him!
Yes, as long as you are a party to that conversation. Just because it is not illegal does not mean that an employer has to allow it. They will have a policy regarding recording devices.
Yes. You have no control over who accompanies him to such events. If he is abusive toward you then discuss the situation with your attorney and take the matter to court if necessary.