Why would a man cheat on a wife that he is married to for 8 years but he says he loves his wife?

Answer 1

I don't know what kind of marriage you and your husband have, but lot of times men feels his wife is not pleasing him the way he expected to. Lot of it has to do with physical appearance, personality, routine life style, sex, and so on. When men are at work, they see another woman who's dressed sexy and looking sexy. Then he comes home to see his wife looking the same as she did every other day... I am not saying every men think this way or cheat. But you have to understand that you can't be too comfortable with your appearance front of your man. I think this saying goes same for the men as well. I guess everyone takes love and marriage for granted, and forgetting how things used to be when they met the first time.

In order to keep healthy marriage, and preventing from cheating.. Knowing how to make your partner feel loved and attracted to you. Think about it, why would an anyone cheat on their partner when they know he or she is sexy to them and turns them on! Excitement makes men keep on their toes.

AnswerWouldn't it be just wonderful is the reality of life was just like that. Meet your husband at the door with lingerie on looking hot! Make-up on just right, hair gleaming as if you just walked out of a salon and a beautiful gourmet dinner ready for him (of course after you have drawn him a bubble bath down to shaving him!) The truth of the matter is either women have to work to help with the future plans of the couple, or some people work, then the mother comes home and looks after children, cleans house, etc. Mothers that stay home sometimes don't talk to an adult all day and can only speak in "grunts and groans" learned from her tiny children. When children are old enough to go to school then it's dear 'ol mom that generally takes them to school, picks them up and that's not even including taking their children to the doctors, dentists, or any sports they may be in. Women simply are tired and so it's no wonder they have little energy for their husbands. Many men work, come home, sit and watches TV, eats, does "his thing" on the computer or whatever. Almost like it's a given!

Now here's a reality shot in the arm. How about both parties chipping in with some chores and raising the children. Who says men shouldn't take an active interest in their children and taking them off their wives's hands so she may get a chance to take that bubble bath, relax, fix her hair and make-up or, here's another thought ... get grandparents or trade-off with other friends with kids and take the wife out for a nice dinner and dancing or a mini holiday.

Some men have had it too good for too long. They expect their wives to look like #10's yet do all of the above. Doesn't happen and will never happen! You want to have a sexy wife that is still attractive to you then get off your lazy behinds and give them a break so they can go to the gym and work-out and get their bodies back in shape, or simply go and get their hair done or visit with girlfriends. You'd notice a bigger difference in your wives if you helped out.