Your husband says you are cheating every time you have financial argument?
- Spouses should work together on finances and each should know where the money is going. Spouses, if possible should try to save money for the future. If one spouse spends too much money on clothing; jewelry, etc., then they are being unfair to their spouse and not working within their budget. Any large amounts of money being spent on larger purchases should be discussed with the spouse. Each of you should get an allowance and stick to that allowance. As far as cheating only you know that and if he is falsely accusing you then communicate the fact that you are not cheating and if he keeps doing so then you should consider a marriage counselor as there is obvious some financial problems in your marriage putting stress on your husband.
Well technically that's threatening you and he shouldn't be able to get way with that, you need to stand up to him and say something along the lines of " I didn't marry you for you to threaten me or make my life a misery" what he is doing is completely out of order and non husband like ! Finance and marriage are completely separate things and he shouldn't confuse them or take out financial difficulties on you.
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What should you do if every time your husband and you get into an argument he says he doesn't want to be with you and one person has got to leave?
I am not married but I had gone thru similar situation before, that was my ex-fiance, I think if a man can't handle an argument graciously with either his wife/gf, he needs to… learn how to agree to disagree, there is no power struggle in a relationship, is about mutual respect and appreciate the difference. I think if he can't handle the argument and quickly jump into a conclusion either one must leave, he is very immature. My advice to you is, does he really mean it when he said so, if SO, okay, call the time out, leave him for awhile, he needs to calm down. If he is not serious, then calm down yourself first, then grab him to have a long serious talk, tell him his statement hurt not only you but also the relationship. There is no such thing as his way or highway. I ended up left my ex-fiance, because he can't handle the argument and wanted to call off the wedding, just small fights, I know that's it, we won't be able to make to beyond the wedding. Answer When me and my live in boyfriend used to argue I would get so mad at him to were I would tell him to leave and move out. But then he would say that that was very childish of me to say that I was in muture if I wasn't going to talk out our problems. So I kinda know what youre going through. The reason why I would say that is because most of the time people includeing me would say things out of anger and to hurt others, also to see if he would leave. It was like a test. would he leave, what would he say next,or what will he do? you see what I'm trying to say? Also there could be more to it maybe he feels guilty about something and he cant tell you but he feels that if you leave he wont ever have to. same thing to me when i would tell Jason to leave the thing that came to my mind was cheating on him in the beginning. so i would never have to tell him. but I did and everything is fine to where when ever we fight I don't say leave anymore cause my contous (I hope I spelled that right)is clean. So now since you see where I am coming from seeing that i would do the same thing I say if you love him so much ask him next time he says to you that one of us has got to leave " whos got to leave me or you? and why does one of us has to leave lets talk out our problems honestly no matter how it hurts come clean" " how do you feel this way and why do you feel this way?" or you can write letters to each other both of yous go in separate rooms read them then come out and talk about it. I heard that one before and it worked with some people. I hope I gave you good advice and that one of the suggetions work thank you for listening and god bless Debbie
If your cheating husband is buying a new business should you be concerned about your financial future?
\n. \n Answer \n. \n. \nYour husband is securing his financial future without any concern for yours. Watch out or you'll get screwed in the divorce.\n. \n Answer … \n. \nYes you should be concerned. He could be spending money that is partly yours. Since he's cheating this is the time to see a lawyer and get out of this marriage.\n. \nMy girlfriend's husband has just left her and he has his own pharmacy business. He was going to let her have the house (big deal because he was moving in with another woman) and nothing else. \n. \nAgain, DIVORCE HIM NOW. Or it will be too late for you.
First of all, you need to find out if he is 100% cheating. If heisn't then you have nothing to worry about, because you never saidanything to him. If he is cheating, you follo…w your gut and eithercall off your love together, or give him another chance and let himexplain. I'm sorry to hear you think he is cheating :(
if you know for sure he has cheated on you than you talk to him. if he dosent care then i'd say hes not a good man and you might could find someone better.
You can't make anybody do anything. It's all a matter of whether or not they want to apoligize. I say, if he cheated on you, leave him. That man does not deserve you. If you g…ive a cheater a second chance, then they are more than likely going to do it again.
\nCheating is cheating no matter where it occurs and (with proof or uncontested) is still a legal cause for divorce. Abandonment is a different issue, particularly if your hus…band was in military service in Iraq. If the abandonment happened when he came back, that is another story.
\nYou will need to trust him on that. You could always hire a private detective.
well, the one who's usually pointing the finger is usually the one who's doing the cheating.......it's a way of justifying what they're doing.
Yes he is cheating on you my ex-boyfriend Chad says I love you after every fight we had
Cos ur not meant to cheat':) xX
Give Him a harmonica before he leaves. When he gets back, before you do anything with him together, have him play you a few songs.
buy him cheap phones
Because something is wrong in the relationship. If she is the one who becomes angry, ask her why she doesn't like your question. Did she think you meant something hostile? I…f you are the one who becomes annoyed by her answers, ask her this simple question: "What did you mean when you said that?" She might not have meant what you thought. But if one of you just wants to keep on and on arguing, that could be a sign that you are wrong for each other.
I cheated on my husband but im in love with a woman what should I do I have a hard time saying goodbye But he is giving me a deadline of tomorriw to stop seeing my lover?
If you're in love with a women you should pursue that. If you don'tlove your husband and cheated on him you're only going to beunhappy in the long run. Tell him how you feel b…efore the deadlinetomorrow, and continue to see your lover.