Your husband says you are cheating every time you have financial argument?
- Spouses should work together on finances and each should know where the money is going. Spouses, if possible should try to save money for the future. If one spouse spends too much money on clothing; jewelry, etc., then they are being unfair to their spouse and not working within their budget. Any large amounts of money being spent on larger purchases should be discussed with the spouse. Each of you should get an allowance and stick to that allowance. As far as cheating only you know that and if he is falsely accusing you then communicate the fact that you are not cheating and if he keeps doing so then you should consider a marriage counselor as there is obvious some financial problems in your marriage putting stress on your husband.
Well technically that's threatening you and he shouldn't be able to get way with that, you need to stand up to him and say something along the lines of " I didn't marry you for you to threaten me or make my life a misery" what he is doing is completely out of order and non husband like ! Finance and marriage are completely separate things and he shouldn't confuse them or take out financial difficulties on you.
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This doesn't seem like a clear sign of cheating. Did you ask your husband why he's not wearing his briefs (or has switched to boxers)? I would ask him in a non-attacking manner to see what he says before jumping to conclusions...are there other things that make you think he is cheating?
What should you do if every time your husband and you get into an argument he says he doesn't want to be with you and one person has got to leave?
I am not married but I had gone thru similar situation before, that was my ex-fiance, I think if a man can't handle an argument graciously with either his wife/gf, he needs to learn how to agree to disagree, there is no power struggle in a relationship, is about mutual respect and appreciate the dif…ference. I think if he can't handle the argument and quickly jump into a conclusion either one must leave, he is very immature. My advice to you is, does he really mean it when he said so, if SO, okay, call the time out, leave him for awhile, he needs to calm down. If he is not serious, then calm down yourself first, then grab him to have a long serious talk, tell him his statement hurt not only you but also the relationship. There is no such thing as his way or highway. I ended up left my ex-fiance, because he can't handle the argument and wanted to call off the wedding, just small fights, I know that's it, we won't be able to make to beyond the wedding. Answer When me and my live in boyfriend used to argue I would get so mad at him to were I would tell him to leave and move out. But then he would say that that was very childish of me to say that I was in muture if I wasn't going to talk out our problems. So I kinda know what youre going through. The reason why I would say that is because most of the time people includeing me would say things out of anger and to hurt others, also to see if he would leave. It was like a test. would he leave, what would he say next,or what will he do? you see what I'm trying to say? Also there could be more to it maybe he feels guilty about something and he cant tell you but he feels that if you leave he wont ever have to. same thing to me when i would tell Jason to leave the thing that came to my mind was cheating on him in the beginning. so i would never have to tell him. but I did and everything is fine to where when ever we fight I don't say leave anymore cause my contous (I hope I spelled that right)is clean. So now since you see where I am coming from seeing that i would do the same thing I say if you love him so much ask him next time he says to you that one of us has got to leave " whos got to leave me or you? and why does one of us has to leave lets talk out our problems honestly no matter how it hurts come clean" " how do you feel this way and why do you feel this way?" or you can write letters to each other both of yous go in separate rooms read them then come out and talk about it. I heard that one before and it worked with some people. I hope I gave you good advice and that one of the suggetions work thank you for listening and god bless Debbie (MORE)
Sounds too me he is the one that has the cheating problem. He might be the one guilty
Should you be concerned if your husband of five years has cheated on every girlfriend and cheated on you during your third year of marriage but has since changed his lifestyle?
Answer . \nRepeated behavior is an indicator of future behavior, unless the person has a) admitted they have a problem and b) went to individual or joint counseling and has been honest about the reasons why they did the behavior. If it's something they've done in every relationship they have be…en in, including yours, it would be hard to have any foundation of trust. (MORE)
Pull his lower lip over his head so he can't see! Seriously, if he's cheating he probably won't stop and even if he does it will be very hard to ever trust him again. I'd kick this guy to the curb married or not. Answer: 1st ask yourself why he is cheating in the first place. If a man is happy… with his marriage then he is not going to jeopardize it, but if something is missing or wrong with it then he will find ways to fill the void. Answer You need to have an honest conversation with him about your marriage. Let him know you've discovered his infidelity, and ask him what his plans are. You both need to have a serious conversation about whether or not you want to save this marriage. If you do, counselling is a must. ANSWER: Only one thing you can do, talk to your husband and tell him what he needs to do. This time you need to think about yourself. (MORE)
If your cheating husband is buying a new business should you be concerned about your financial future?
\n. \n Answer \n. \n. \nYour husband is securing his financial future without any concern for yours. Watch out or you'll get screwed in the divorce.\n. \n Answer \n. \nYes you should be concerned. He could be spending money that is partly yours. Since he's cheating this is the time… to see a lawyer and get out of this marriage.\n. \nMy girlfriend's husband has just left her and he has his own pharmacy business. He was going to let her have the house (big deal because he was moving in with another woman) and nothing else. \n. \nAgain, DIVORCE HIM NOW. Or it will be too late for you. (MORE)
Married for 5 years husband has cheated the whole time he says he loves his family should the wife be told. he told her it stopped 3 years ago.?
If this situation was reversed and it was my wife cheating on me I would want to know. I would say yes. Answer Yes, she should definitely be told.
Well, you can either dump him, or if he is remorse, and is TRULY sorry and you know it, give a second thought about him before you do something rational. ESPECIALLY if you have children.
Well, this type of statement is very inappropriate for a married couple. However, not knowing the circumstances behind this reoccurring statement, I would say its time for some serious marriage counseling. Viper1
You Made mistake you cheated on your husband with one of his friends he left says he needs time and space How do you get him to come back Home and fall in Love with you again Cause you truly Love him?
Answer . first you should turn the tables around and think how you would feel if this happened to you for a man his ego is bruised very badly and he now probably feels inadequate in front of his friend if it had been someone he didn't know i would say try to win him back but with his own friend N…aa that is one of the things that can justify a divorce any way cheating and or death not in MARRAIGE you know you made a mistake so live up to it and let him decide don't push it that way if he comes back it will be because he wants too if in that case he does DONT EVER DO IT AGAIN i cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years and got caught by an std he didn't leave me or hit me and when it was all over i wish he had of done one if not both but i gave him some time for a while he stopped telling me he loved and since then Ive heard it 3 times it hurt him so bad and in return it hurt me men have feelings too just give him some time and space but if he decides not to come back dont trip life goes on consider it a test that you failed and try to pass the next time meanwhile if he does come back that's a sure sign that something is missing in your marriage and you guys need to talk about and resolve what you feel is missing to the point where you feel you need to go to someone else maybe you should think about that while you guys are apart.. Answer . The best thing to do is give him that space he needs to digest what has happened. You have broken the one bond that most of us cling onto and that's trust and thus, you've broken his heart. All of us make mistakes throughout our lives (hopefully we learn from them) we are just human and your husband should realize that.. Although he needs his space keep in touch with him every week. See if he'll meet with you. There was something wrong with your marriage from the beginning and perhaps neither of you were filling each other needs and had poor communication skills. Poor communication skills in a relationship (be it a partner, family member or friend) and causes more problems than necessary.. It will take some time before your husband will trust you again and you are really going to have to earn it. In time, he'll trust you. Have that meeting with him. Meet for a drink, coffee or go for a walk where there aren't too many people. My husband and I walk with the dogs to resolve a lot of our problems because it seems to calm things down if it's a very difficult decision we have to make. We also MAKE the time each day to sit (TV off and no answering phone calls) to discuss our day or any problems we may have. We've been married almost 36 years. Marriage takes work and it's not all a bed of roses, so you have to be strong, know what you weakness' and strengths are (as he does) and build on that. When in doubt discuss your problems with each other. (MORE)
Say,that daddy made a mistake and that we need sometime apart.. Say, daddy made a mistake and we need sometime apart.
You dont tell him Answer Improvement: Sweety you should not cheat on your husband if you didnt want to be with him or wanted other guys then why did you marry him, it is wrong to cheat
My husband talk to this girl behind my back every night i just found out about it. is this cheating?
No cheating is when he goes to bed with her. There is nothing wrong with talking to people of either sex even if you are talking about sex.
First of all, you need to find out if he is 100% cheating. If heisn't then you have nothing to worry about, because you never saidanything to him. If he is cheating, you follow your gut and eithercall off your love together, or give him another chance and let himexplain. I'm sorry to hear you think …he is cheating :( (MORE)
He is the best one to answer this, and he should. If he won't, however, it may be as simple as the other person appeals to his ego by showing him that he is attractive. This is often the case when the girlfriend is younger than the spouse.. UPDATED by ConnieU:. She is doing things (other than sex)… that make him feel good about himself. She compliments him. A lot. Every time she sees him. When was the last time you said he looked nice? She touches him, no not his penis - just on the arm or back - just soft, loving, touches. She acts interested in him. She asks about his job or his hobby. Then, she listens and doesn't interrupt while he's talking. She laughs at his jokes even if she's heard them before. She keeps her house/apartment clean. If she has kids, she makes sure they don't bother her while he's there. Just little stuff that you could be doing.. Start complimenting him. Even if he looks like a slob you can say things like: You have such pretty eyes; I really like it when you wear that shirt, it makes you look good; You sure have a sexy butt; You always look so handsome; Just being with you makes me happy; You have such strong hands; if you have kids you can tell him that he's a great father. Think up nice things to say. . I've already told you what she's doing. All you have to do is pretend that you are the other woman. Do all of the stuff she's doing. You can get him to stop having an affair with her. He won't need her if you do the same things for him. (MORE)
if you know for sure he has cheated on you than you talk to him. if he dosent care then i'd say hes not a good man and you might could find someone better.
You can't make anybody do anything. It's all a matter of whether or not they want to apoligize. I say, if he cheated on you, leave him. That man does not deserve you. If you give a cheater a second chance, then they are more than likely going to do it again.
\nCheating is cheating no matter where it occurs and (with proof or uncontested) is still a legal cause for divorce. Abandonment is a different issue, particularly if your husband was in military service in Iraq. If the abandonment happened when he came back, that is another story.
if you really really love him..forgive him...if you know you really want to spend the rest of your life with him and you kno he wont cheat on you..maybe you should give him another chance to redeem himself..but if he strikes again let him go..it ain't worth it...!!
First thing is NOT to tell him,(IF YOU LOVE HIM)... Start living your life the right way, and let your husband be the center of your relationship... if you can't do that then you need to move on before you cheat again, and you will... Make up your mind.. what most important to you
Maybe. Well also not that much. Trust him for the thing you thinkyou can trust him for. You don`t need to trust him for everything , because he cheated. Sotrust him for what you think you can trust him for! Maybe that willhelp. Answer 2: One time, can you really be sure just one time? Adulteryis act…ually a sin against God. You need to think deeply about whatadultery will do to your marriage mate and your life; consider thedeceit, the hurt and broken trust. (MORE)
one is enough , twice is better, thrice is good then four times is excellent.
\nYou will need to trust him on that. You could always hire a private detective.
Why? that is not good for you or your children(If you have one or more) Okay, just be mean and if you really want to end the relationship you should cheat. - You refuse him sex every time he wants it and beat him repeatedly. I'm sure there are many more ways too. you could try putting on wei…ght or cheating on hyim first. but generally people don't like their husbands cheating on them so it isn't an advisable thing to want him to do. :) (MORE)
well, the one who's usually pointing the finger is usually the one who's doing the cheating.......it's a way of justifying what they're doing.
If you ignore him, that'll possibly cause him to be angry and start an argument. Best thing to do is just talk with him, if he begins to argue cut him off right there and just walk away. If you must, you can always tease him.
ANSWER: . I don't know the situation of your marriage with your husband, but only one thing I can tell you. If he got hurt by you before then he is afraid that it might happen again. But if not, then maybe someone hurt him before the two of you got married and he doesn't want it to happen again. O…verall all you can do is support and comfort your husband so he will not loose his delf esteem. I could tell that he really loves you and don't want to loose you.. (MORE)
If the wife of a cheating husband text his mistress and says you can have him all you want do you think she meant that or just needs time to forgive him?
she meant that it is because the wife of a cheating husband is trying to do such things that the mistress of his husband realize that what she did was wrong. ANSWER: I think the wife is telling the mistress that she can have him, so she will not have to deal with pain and bad memories. And l…etting him go is her way to forgive him. (MORE)
Husbands do not go about telling everyone -let alone their spouses, that they are cheating so that would be hard to know. ANSWER: Yes he did and I was stupid enough to ignored his body language, and the absence of his presence at home. I thought it was work, but I was mistaken. he was having an a…ffair with the woman he met o n a dating site.. (MORE)
Yes he is cheating on you my ex-boyfriend Chad says I love you after every fight we had
Would you divorce your husband if this was his first time cheating on you and told you he did it 3 or 4 times?
Yes. Unless he is really committed and really wants to get help for his cheating, like through marriage counseling, then you should stay. But otherwise divorce him. Cuz he will still continue to cheat.
tell her right out don't hold back if she is your true friend theni would write it as honestly as possible .
Would a wife believe her husband if he said he only cheated 3 or 4 time but cheating is cheating no matter how many times?
A wife probably would be over protective on their marriage. Sheprobably will believe the husband. But she can also have mixedfeelings whether to believe you or not. It depends on the woman.
Yes. Stop cooking, cleaning, don't keep yourself good looking, always nag, and be mean. And dont allow him to touch you ANSWER: You don't have to do the things that your husband wouldn't like, if he want to have an affair, he will find the way. There's a lot of married men who have a perfect an…d happy life, and they still find the way to cheat because they want to prove to them self that they can do what they want to do no matter what consequences is. (MORE)
I have caught my husband cheating three times with the same women over a two year period Now I found out he still calls and texts her every day why cant he let her go or why won't he just divorce me?
By not leaving him when you caught him cheating the first three times, you have let him know that you will stay even if he continues. Why should he leave you when he can have both of you. You probably take care of the house, laundry, kids, help pay the bills etc. You are actually making it easy for …him to have his affairs. !st responder is 100% correct . Don't be a doormat .Get a spine , and a lawyer. (MORE)
Give Him a harmonica before he leaves. When he gets back, before you do anything with him together, have him play you a few songs.
This guy and I have a thing and every time he goes to a party he ends up cheating on me and when I find out he says he'll never do it again and he loves me and he is very sorry should I believe him?
A person that is in love with another person does not cheat! This guy has a large ego so be smart, be the first to tell him to get lost and don't let the door slam him in the butt. He will only continue to cheat on you causing you nothing but heartache. There are so many other nice guys out there th…at you could be dating. (MORE)
What goes through a wifes head when her husband told her he cheated on her 3-4 times only after getting caught would she believe everything he says?
In my opinion I would not believe him. If he was able to betray her trust and keep it a secret, only coming clean when confronted with it, then of course he is going to spout some stuff to try to save face. Maybe he is telling the truth this time, but I would never believe him, or be able to forgive… him, it would be over for me. (MORE)
The only people who know whether or not a marriage is going to work are the people in it. However, it's important to look at your motivations and understand what you're expecting and why you want to try. A husband who cheats a third time will cheat a fourth time - if that's something you're willing …to accept, it may be worth it to keep your marriage. But if you're wanting to stay with him out of fear of being alone, fear of the shame of it and not because you want to be married to him (the real him--the cheater him) and you're expecting to change, you should consider what kind of marriage you do want. (MORE)
People are human and entitled to one mistake as far as cheating, but it appears your husband has no moral character; does not care how much he has hurt you and and continues to hurt you by his lying and cheating. Since he is up to his old tricks again then he could well continue to cheat a third tim…e or more. If you love him then kick his backside out the door and get a separation so it gives you both a chance to think about the relationship you have and whether he wants to continue cheating or you even want him back. Perhaps a few months without you may well change his mind and if it does then you both should seek marriage counseling. If he continues on the way he is then file for divorce and move on in your future because you deserve better. (MORE)
no you dont, the cheat stays active until you put it in again then it becomes deactivated.
What does it mean when you ask your cheating husband how was she in bed and he says she was different?
ANSWER: It is that, if your husband told you how the other woman is, it doesn't matter how long the two of you were married. It will be different to your husband because for many years, ( I don't know how long the two of you were married) you are the only one he had sex with, from the day he marri…ed you. And when it comes to other woman, the reason why its not the same, she is new to him and it excite him. I know because it happened to me as well (MORE)
Theres only a few reasons why women cheat. Number 1. Their spouses got to comfortable and dont believe in trying to please the woman that they already have, therefore women go and find it else where. Number 2 no hugs and kisses after the children are born, just a pek when leaving out the door for wo…rk. Women like foreplay more than sex itself so if you cant warm the meal you dont get to eat! Number 3. Your man's to buzy with tv or friends or etra ciricular activities (MORE)
If your husband cheated on you, you'd either give him another chance for your marriage, or break up with him.If your husband cheats you will have to decide if the marriage isworth saving. In many cases, if a man cheats he will more thanlikely cheat again and you should move on. If he truly wants toc…hange then you can set up marriage counseling. (MORE)
Because something is wrong in the relationship. If she is the one who becomes angry, ask her why she doesn't like your question. Did she think you meant something hostile? If you are the one who becomes annoyed by her answers, ask her this simple question: "What did you mean when you said that?" S…he might not have meant what you thought. But if one of you just wants to keep on and on arguing, that could be a sign that you are wrong for each other. (MORE)
ANSWER: If this man is your husband and he told you about this woman and always giving her a ride to work, that could be the reason. But if he never confide you about this woman being his friends and giving her ride every time, then you must stop and pay attention to what he is saying to you and his… body language. If you trust your husband with this woman then just tell him, don't hide it. One best thing is once in a while why not you drive him to work while she is also with the two of you. See if the atmosphere is quite, uncomfortable for both of them. Then you will know. And a word of advice please don't let your husband tell you that " they are only friends" sometimes men loves their female friend with benefit. (MORE)
No. The better solution for this is to not date a guy that cheats. This is not healthy behaviour in any relationship.
Okay, Now if you are with the same girl and she continues to cheat and you know about it then, I'd stop going back to her, Put your foot down and tell her your not going to be played like a fool. You both then deserve something better and happiness. If you keep going back all that this girl is gonna… do is take advantage of you cause she knows that you will come back regardless of what she does. Try this. Tell her it's best that you guys break up until she know's exactly what she want's. If you find someone else along the way and she gets mad about it then it's her fault tell her that she was the one being unfaithful, she didn't know what she wanted, and that you need someone that is going to treat you right. She will realize then what she want's and needs, then hopefully she will come back around and actually change. Unless it's to late. Hope this works:) (MORE)
You should not let you husband to cheat at the first place. It canhurt the feelings of both of you.
I cheated on my husband but im in love with a woman what should I do I have a hard time saying goodbye But he is giving me a deadline of tomorriw to stop seeing my lover?
If you're in love with a women you should pursue that. If you don'tlove your husband and cheated on him you're only going to beunhappy in the long run. Tell him how you feel before the deadlinetomorrow, and continue to see your lover.