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Keep them away from the father and make an agreement with him not to be verbally abusive to your children

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Q: Your husbands ex is verbally abusive to the kids How do you help them when they visit you?
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What should you do if your wife thinks you are verbally abusive and a narcissist?

Go to a therapist and get a second opinion. The wife shouldn't diagnose and if you truly have this problem, then a therapist can help. If not, then a therapist can help her. Go together for at least one visit.


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If you realize that you are being abusive, whether verbally or physically, it is imperative that you seek help from a professional to find out why you are,, you are already on your way by admitting to it.


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If she's of legal age and wont leave ask the police to help after you have given her notice. If she's a minor you can't kick her out.


Why was he trying not to be abusive but he was?

Men who are abusive generally have learned this from the environment in which they grew up. Some men have a short fuse and blast off with either verbally abusive words or they become physically abusive with their partner. Some men know deep inside it is wrong, but don't know how to get help and most men refuse to seek psychological counseling because it makes them feel weak and not masculine. If he refuses to get help then you have the power to get out of the abusive relationship.


I live with my alcoholic son and when he drinks he is verbally and physically abusive mostly verbally don't know where to turn for help and don't know where to live?

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Can a 16-year old in Indiana live in a foster home if her father is verbally abusive and threatening?

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Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if with a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?

It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.


How do you tell your partner he is being verbally abusive and what is the most productive way to handle his reaction?

There are two ways to approach it. I call them the submissive and the conflictive postures. You have to just tell him calmly that the way he talks to you really bothers you and you feel it is a bit abusive. If he begins to yell and call you names, tell him that is the behavior you are talking about and you don't want to talk to him when he is like that. You really want to talk to him and work it out, but you won't talk to him when he is like that. And you and he can talk more when he calms down. Offer to get counseling with him if you feel he isn't stopping on his own. Sometimes people grow up being verbally abused and don't really know it. Then they verbally abuse, but don't realize it is abusive because it is "normal" to them. Talking to him and telling him how you feel about it may help, but it also may not.


You are 16 and you want to be emancipated in Missouri your father will take this to court. he used to be physically abusive and is still verbally abusive What are the chances of you losing in court?

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Do controlling and verbally abusive men change?

I'm sorry dear, but my answer to that question is a big NO, trust me I have experience in this department. A little embarrased to say but have been trhough it a few times. You are the one that may need the help and get away from somebody that is doing this to you. It has nothing to do with you and don't let him let you think that. It's all about him. Move on honey. You deserve better