No your not, it is your time to shine, you don't have to.
In a traditional wedding where the Bride's parents, pay for the wedding, certainly. Cash or checque in the amount that you can afford, along with a small extra gift of a personal nature for the new couple's home together. DON'T over-extend yourself, as your bridal couple and parents should have some awareness of each other's financial condition.
No they just give them a big wedding gift
It's usually regarded as courteous for anyone attending the wedding to give a gift (and, in most cases, close family members will give a gift even if they don't attend). It's not legally required, of course, and if someone doesn't give a gift then the newlyweds will just have to suck it up and live with that. It would be unusual for parents not to give any kind of gift at all, but they might opt not to if they are strongly opposed to the marriage, as a sign of their disapproval.
The 30th is The Pearl Anniversay. If you can afford it, pearls are the traditional answer.
Traditionally, The groom's parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, the wedding flowers, the honeymoon, and the alcohol for the reception.
No, there is no correlation between the amount spent on the guests at the wedding reception and the cost of a gift given to the married couple. The bride's parents pay for most of the wedding and the groom's parents pay for a smaller part of the wedding. Any gift given by a guest (generous, large or small) should be well received.
For the lovely wedding, if the Bride's parents pay for it, and for the gift of their daughter and themselves as a welcome addition to their family. Your children's wedding day is a time to be on your most welcoming behavior , even if you have the slightest reservations.
No, there is no order in handing out weddinggifts. Some people may drop off or mail a wedding gift to the home of the bride; other people will bring the wedding gifts to the wedding reception and usually the gifts are not opened at wedding reception (parents will take the wedding gifts home with them while the bride and groom go off on their wedding night) and some married couples will wait a day or two and have a 'gift opening party' either at their home or at their parents home.
Etiquette states that you have up to a year after the wedding to get someone a wedding gift.
Yes, it's still a wedding and the bride and groom are embarking on a life together that traditionally guests (including family) help them furnish with gifts. The wedding itself could be considered a gift but in certain cultures it is traditional that the parents of the bride or of the groom shoulder the costs of a wedding. When parents throw birthday parties for their children or children throw anniversary parties for their parents, shouldn't they still bring a gift? Of course they should!. If you are attending an event that people usually bring gifts to, you are not excluded. Even the bride and groom exchange gifts to each other whether or not one of them decided to pay for the wedding without the help of the other.
No I have never heard that. There's a old custom that the bride's parents pay for the wedding but in these days many couples pay for everything themselves.
No, dates do not have to give a gift to the wedding couple. Your date does.