Yes he can. He possibly has different feelings for you both. He may have feelings of love for you, and caring feelings for her. But he still can have feelings for you both. But what you need to look at, and see is that he is with you. The other girl is his ex and you are with him now!
That means she doesn't feel the same way but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
tell him/her that you have some feelings for them and ask if they have those same feelings or not
that depends on the situation. but if you want a shortcut, it's simple... first, analyze the situation. next consider the feelings of your friend, then the girl. you must decide on your own. this is a matter about TRUST and LOVE.
Im sorry for you. You have feelings for that girl. You obviously like her. Just take it 1 day at a time and be calm and nice. Choose who you like more, the girl or your best friend, and knock the other one out of your life. Its all you can do, trust me. Ive been in the same situation
Might be that if she doesn't feel the same for you as you feel for her it would be weird being friends since you don't really have friends feelings for her but love feelings. She would always know that it's there.
Honesty is the best bet. Otherwise, you'll never know how it could have ended up. If she's really your best friend, she'll accept you even if she doesn't have the same feelings as you do.
Talk to your friend first, let him know you like the same girl. Be yourself, respectful and honest. Who does the girl like?
talk about it to her
Take this from a girl. . .its time to move on. I know its difficult but if she doesn't feel the same it obviosly won't work. If it is truly impossible for you to move on then just be her friend but make your intentions clear.
I am elated you asked this question. Do have feelings for this friend? Tell them if you do or not. and if you have feelings for them you should probably date this friend. I went through the same thing but my friend didn't have those feelings for me so i just forgot it but we still are great friends!
It happens often that we have feelings for someone of the same sex, people won't admit it but the majority of them have felt it. Do you know how your friend feels about female relationships? If it is not her thing then maybe you shouldn't tell her but if you know that she might be open to it confide in her that you like her more than a friend.
Sometimes when you have such a good friend in someone and spending time with them as well as sharing things friends share you tend to develop feelings toward them. They can be misleading as well as if divulged can break a friendship up if they do not feel the same towards you.