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Can a relationship survive after an abuser has charges against him?
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∙ 11y ago
In my opinion, NO! Men hold grudges against being held accountable for their actions. Just like us woman hold grudges against affairs! If your like me, it took finding an empty, tore up box of condoms to leave my abuser! I have had my hair pulled out (by the root), my chin kicked in (scare for life), spat on (full lungers), ran into with his car (on purpose) etc........ Even after all of that, I kept going back to him. It was not until I knew for a fact that he had been with another woman that made me leave for good! Guess what?! Even with proof in hand, he still tried to deny it! I got him to confess by telling him "I know your lying, I can see it in your eyes!" When I asked him why he lied to me, he said with tears in his eyes "Because I did not want to hurt you!" Can you believe that one? I have a five year restraining order against this person (or demon), and he still calls me! He has sent me SEX-TING (text), had his drunk friend leave messages (while I hear him laugh in the background time I accidently answered a call from him and he said "Yeah, I'm sorry, I meant to call my mother.....I'm not even suppose to be talking to you.......Yeah, I really wanna...." That is when I hung up! I think because of the restraining order he most likely wants to kill me! He has tried almost everything to get me back! I think he wants revenge because I finally rejected him. I truly believe that because I took a little legal action we CAN NOT save the relationship. And, that is why I did it! I am frightened by him, but I am more affied of me going back to him! Yes, I still love him and miss him very much! I know that is sick! But staying with him would have been even sicker! I am gathering evidence against him so when I call the police.....it won't just get a "slap on the wrist". Girls, take my advice.......If you have to press charges against a man or get a stay-away order, you need to be done with the relationship! Your mind is in the right place, it is your heart that is confused! And trust me, they don't change!
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Is your boyfriend abusive?
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
Can an abuser easily forget his ex girlfriend who broke up with him?
Once the abuser realizes he does not have control of her, eventually he will give up and move on. Sounds to me as if he needs to seek help. Stay away from him. Don't answer phone calls. If he keeps bothering you, press charges against him. But no, the abuser will not "easily forget" about the ex-girlfriend.
Can a 17-year-old girl whose abuse was many years ago and abuser's charges lain 4 years ago get a restraining order against her brotherabuser NOW after the charges were lain?
Of course Of course Of course
How many battered women press charges against their abuser?
The number of battered women who press charges against their abuser can vary significantly depending on various factors such as socioeconomic status, cultural norms, fear of retaliation, and available support systems. It is estimated that a significant portion of domestic violence incidents go unreported, with only a minority of victims filing charges.
Why does a woman reconcile after three attempts to leave an abusive relationship?
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
What makes people vulnerable to abuse and the power relationship between the abuser and the victim?
the abuser is called sadist & the victim is called masochist.
What are the effects of domestic violence in relationship to economic inequality?
it shows that the abuser tries to be the more dominant in the relationship.
Will abuser change in a new relationship?
Yes and no it all depends on the person
What are the ways in which you cannot be heavily involved with an abuser but want to keep the relationship?
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused).You cannot have a relationship with an abuser without feeling abused.
How can I put away your abuser for life?
YouÊ may not be able to put your abuser away for life.Ê You do need to protecct yourself and file the appropiate police reports, to be sure that charges are being filed and he or she can face prosecution for the acts of abuse.
What is a good attention getter for an abusive relationship?
call the cops on the abuser, tell the abuser, and when he/she make just stares at you laugh like a maniac. You will be the center of attention in ur bf/gfs eyes.
