Can you still be in love with your spouse if you committed adultery with your ex?
You tell us..do u still love him? i however don't think so..if u did u would have controlled yourself and acted like an adult. By cheating on him you proved that you have zero respect for him and that your either still in love with your ex (if that) or u want to have 2 much fun to be married to one man and be devoted
You might love your husband, but you don't respect him. Concern for the other person's happiness and well beign is an important element of love. How would you feel if your husband cheated on you?
What are the reasons that you decided to have an affair with an ex? You must have some dissatisfaction in your marriage.
Yes you can. There is different degrees of love. Obviously you are not getting all you need from your spouse. I understand completely why you turned to your ex. I too have done the same thing. Infact, I have been doing this for 2 years now.
I love my husband. He is the father of my children, a great provider, and so on. He is a great lover and so fort, but he lacks when it comes to being there emotionally for me. I get this from my ex.
My ex, I can talk to him about anything and everything. He can make me laugh like no one else. I can tell him my secrets, my dreams and my desires, and he wont make me feel bad. And we can make love like there is no tomorrow. He has a wife and kids, and I have a husband and kids. Neither one of us want to hurt anyone, so we continue this, hurting ourselves.
I love my ex and I love my husband. I get something from each one of them that I dont get from the other. I know this is wrong, but I dont want to hurt anyone for my own happiness. I know that doesnt make sense, but we plan on no one finding out. We dont want to hurt others.
Look if you have to ask and you also committed adultery, I highly doubt it. What kind of love does that. We are all human and have wants and needs. If you need to be with your ex you should have not only had respect for yourself but for your spouse to tell them before the deed was done. If your relationship had been strong you would not strayed in the first place. Humans are creatures of habit and we form attachments to things in our life whether it be a person or an object and sometimes it is hard to leave things behind. Still there is no good excuse or reason for betraying the spouse and an heart felt apology is in order and you need to ask their feelings on how they want to proceed with the relationship and swallow what you created. This happens all the time, your not a horrible person just one that made a very poor decision. Life is too short to waste on the what if's and the we should have, make a clear path for yourself and stick to it, I promise there will be less strife in your life. Good luck.
Answer: This is one of those things, that only you are going to know. If you are questiong your love for your spouse on the internet than maybe you need to sit and clearly think about whether or not you still have the love for this person, and I think it is important that if you aren't still in love that you tell your spouse, because honesty is the other thing that marriage is built…
The couple would need to first go talk to their Bishop. The church has family councilor's where the couple can go and receive help. The person who committed adultery would need to repent and totally feel bad for what he did. If the couple are both Mormons there is a process they would go through. But yes, the man and women can still stay together if both are in agreement and can work out their…
he executed her because she was unfaithful to Him. She committed adultery with Thomas Colpepper, and, before coming to Cort she "fell in love" with Francis Dereham. During her reign as queen, she reemployed Deremham as her "private secretary" Anyway, she was basically executed because she committed adultery with Thomas Collpepper.
Is it possible be in love and make love to someone other than your spouse but still love and make love with your spouse for the rest of your life?
Speaking for myself- being IN LOVE means body, mind, Heart and soul. I know it may sound old-fashioned, but if you engage in extra-marital affairs and say you love your spouse, then you are lying to yourself and there is something wrong in your relationship. What you are doing isn't making love... it's just having sex.
How do you know if you spouse is still in love with you if she hasent said said it in over 6 months?
As the question states, the infidelity through emotion does not necessarily mean that a spouse or partner is committing the act of adultery. In thought though, one is letting go of what was once love for another and abandoning there emotional duties which consist of caring, worrying, nurturing etc. And applying them to someone else in thought. This act is a pretense to adultery.
* Yes, in some cases a cheating spouse can still love their wife. Some men are free-spirited and not a one woman man and has not grown up enough to commit to a long standing marriage with commitments. Most women don't wish to share their men with another woman and thus, the cheating spouse should be given the choice of growing up or out they go!
Should you still be intimate with your spouse even when they say they are no longer in love with you?
It's very difficult to be intimate in any way with a spouse that no longer loves you. Both of you need to sit down and communicate and decide if you are going to work on your marriage (or if you are living together) or not by seeking marriage counseling. If your spouse refuses then you need to move on with your life. Life is to short to stay with someone you no longer love or…
Actually, love does not decrease because of age. It usually just becomes stronger. You have to accept the fact that in life, people do change, so does your spouse/partner. They may have changed, but if they still love you, the love would still continue to blossom like before. You have to believe in that.
i think because some of your love for them has died. you would have never thought someone you loved would betray you and cheat on you. nd your spouse knws they have betrayed you nd even if they love you 120% of their heart, they still feel guilty. your love will be hard to get back fully to its before state..
When a spouse gives their other spouse all their love; trust and loyalty they always feel their spouse will do the same so when the spouse has an affair it comes as a shock to the other spouse. It is heartbreaking; that treasured bond of trust you once had in your spouse has gone and not easily earned back. It is normal to envision your cheating spouse being with someone else and enjoying themselves and…
Sure, why not. You love her don't you? 'Should you?' is a little more complicated -- "whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart" and all. When we lust we are operating out of our physical nature, formed by biological evolution. Christ urges to operate out of our social nature, formed by societal evolution. Lust is lust, neither high nor low. Social attraction for your…
"Thou shalt not commit adultery" This is one of the ten commandments which was given to us by God to protect us and keep us from getting hurt. God knows what adultery of any kind does to relationships and family's. If you know that you are not the type of person to remain faithful, don't commit to someone and promise them complete fidelity for the rest of your lives together. If you find yourself in…
The ring that is given is a sign of the love and fidelity of the one who gives it. The ring that you wear, that was placed on your finger by your spouse on your wedding day, does not represent your commitment to your marriage, your love for your spouse, your faithfulness to this relationship and to the vocation God has called you into, etc. It represents the commitment, love and faithfulness of your spouse…
I am married he is married We didn't mean to do it but we fell in love should we hurt others to be happy for ourselves?
Well if you are not in love with your spouse and you are "cheating" on your spouse it will no doubtedly come out and they will get hurt, whether you tell them now or later, does it really matter. If you are "in love" with someone other than your spouse that will mean that you are not even giving your spouse a chance in being happy anyway, because you are unhappy, and if you stay…