Did you make a mistake if your ex-girlfriend wanted to have coffee and you said no and could she want you back or just catch up if it's been 5 months since she walked out and you can't forget her hurt?

Answer 1

If you love her meet with her, but walk in with confidence and a no nonsense attitude. Don't make it easy for her if she wants to come back into your life. Always remember though, that all people make mistakes and she could have made a bad one regarding you. Listen to what she has to say, and if she just met with you to find out what you are up too then be pleasant, but cut the meeting short with her. Make an excuse you have another commitment that night. I'm sure she will ask, and just smile and walk away. Leave her guessing! If she wants to get back together and you really feel she has owned up to her mistake and is regretful, then it's up to you as to whether you want to risk being hurt again. Again I can't stress, that ALL of us do make mistakes and often hurt others around us. If this young lady is a good person, you've had few problems before and she wants to come back into your life, then she could still be worth it and if you decide to let her back into your life tell her straight up that you will never put up with this again. If it ever happens again you are going to be the one that walks out. A word from the wise .... NEVER let people continue to hurt you. We are all in control of our own lives. If she's playing games, make that meeting short! You deserve better. Good luck Marcy