Yes. You will always wonder. The level of trust in the marriage has been broken and no matter how long you are married you will still wonder.
That's his responsibility. If he is still seeing her, the affair is not over. You can't control your husband. A spouse has the right to the respect, loyalty and faithfulness of their partner. If your husband can't control his behavior then you need to assess your status as his wife and whether you want your present situation to continue. Are you better off with him or without him?
You are probably missing your cheating ex husband because even though he cheated on you, you may still love him.
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
one is enough , twice is better, thrice is good then four times is excellent.
i think for a woman who devoted almost her whole being & loyalty for the same man, and yet she's still being cheated by her husband, she has the right to do the same thing to her husband. even if it sounds unfair to some men, but that's the best way for men to learn their lesson.
Trust is earned and she broke that bond of trust. If she has never cheated before then you either chalk it up to human error or, move on. People are just human and are entitled to one mistake such as this, but if she is continuously making you wonder if she is cheating then it's time to move on with your life.
he cheated on you for a reason. remember that. stop obsessing and being so insecure and maybe he wont do it again. oh and also. drop it you uptight b*tch. if you dont give it to him, someone else will.
Unfortunately, doesn't change the fact he still cheated and you deserve better.
try counseling and if it doesnt work out then you may have to get a divorce
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
You can't. If your husband is STILL cheating on you after you found out, divorce him.
You can't work on the issues in your marriage with your husband until he's a full partner in the marriage again. This is impossible unless he ends the affair completely--which he hasn't done. An affair doesn't truly end when the sex ends, it ends when the affair partners cease contact with eachother. Keeping in contact only feeds the emotional high both parties got from the affair. Unfortunately, this also sounds like gaslighting---your husband and the affair partner are claiming to be only friends, while there is still an emotional (and possibly sexual) relationship going on without your knowledge. Your husband isn't making a choice here; he's simply hoping to keep both his marriage and his relationship with the affair partner. You need to make the best choice for yourself at this time. Privately go to an attorney, look through your finances and have an honest talk with your husband. Demand, not ask, that he make a choice---either he becomes a full partner in the marriage by going to counseling with you and completely ending contact with the affair partner (even if it means changing jobs or moving), or he needs to leave the marital residence ASAP and expect a divorce.