Believe it or not, not that often. He may have a buddy that's an abuser and they may "trade off stories" and abusers have a low regard for women in general. Usually, the abuser keeps his secrets to himself and the victim, and even, in some cases threaten the victim from uttering one single word to anyone about what goes on between himself and her. Abusers are spineless wonders that can't cut it with another man because they know if they lipped off or were abusive they'd get the beating of their lives and that is why they pick on the weaker sex (including children in some cases.) If you are abused please get away from this man. There are Women's Centers in most communities and all you have to do is phone Mental Health and they will give you the number. There is lots of help out there for you, and I sure hope, if you are abused, that you take the plunge and get this help. Stay strong! Good luck Marcy
No Way! You'll just lose your friend if you talk behind her back.
Ask them why?;) Answer Ask them why, then stay away from them. A real friend will not talk behind your back.
sometimes a verbal abuser can be consider a sociopath they get involve and like the dirty talk and begin to make them feel and enjoy group talk that is abusive.
Sometimes It's hard to get over the fact that your close ones are talking behind your back. I don't get annoyed when they express their feelings even if it's negative. But I do get annoyed when they talk behind my back and let me know. I need solutions.
she will talk about you behind your back
You should tell them you thought you trusted them, and if they are really your friends they shouldn't talk about you behind your back.
You should not wish revenge against an abuser, this will only make your abuser furious and cause them to harm you more than they already have. To stop an abuser you need to talk to the authorities and if you are a teenager or younger person that is being abuse you need to talk to a trusted adult for help.
if you talk behind anyone's back because one did you can get in trouble. Though,you would get in more trouble than the other. But one good word you can say is a essedropper
NO! NEVER! Abusive relationships are very very bad and noone deserves to be in them. Loneleness is not a reason to go back to an abuser. Long time victims tend to want to return to the abuse because they are so used to being abused. If you are considering go back into your abusive relationship or having feelings of loneliness that are uncontrolable talk to a conselor or seek medical advice from a doctor. Antidepressants could be prescribed to you so that you don't feel so alone. There are also woman support groups and male support groups all of people that have been abused before. Seek help and reach out, going back is NEVER the answer!
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
he/she mak not talk to you talk behind your back ormake fun of ou
They have been abused for quite a while and start to internalize it. Most abusers are verbal as well as physical abusers. They manage to convince their victims that it's all the victims fault, and that they disserve what is happening to them. By the time many of them