A bridal shower is a party where you invite female friends and family (that are invited to the wedding) to an afternoon party. You serve food, you have a cake, the bride to be opens her presents. The whole point of a shower is to shower the couple with gifts. Normally the attendants and possibly the MOB pay for the shower.
A bachelorette party is where you invite female friends and family out to a bar or to Vegas for drinking and strippers and other debauchery. Normally you don't invite your Grandma or Mom, although I've seen both attend. Presents are involved but sometimes penis shaped straws are. Everyone pays for themselves at a bachelorette party, although the bride really shouldn't have to buy her own drinks.
It is your wedding and you are not required to do anything you do not want to do. In some instances the bachelorette party is thrown by someone besides the bride. The bride should definitely not be expected to throw a bridal shower, but a close friend should.
If you are invited to both and you are a close friend (some relatives are friends) it is your choice. If the Maid of Honor has the poor taste to invite the same group to the Bridal Shower and the Bachelorette Party and the above does not apply, it is your call. Personally if the latter were the case, I would not attend.
Traditionally, the Miad of honor plans the shower along with the bridesmaids. However, a family member or co-worker may want to plan a shower also.
It is not traditional to invite the mother in law to the bachelorette party. You can if you are going to do a nontraditional bachelorette/bridal party type of thing, but generally, bachelorette parties get kind of dirty so I would not do!
Generally the Maid of Honor and Bridesmaids get together and have a Bridal Shower or, the mother of the bride may have one as well. Whomever has the bridal shower pays for it and they have the right to ask guests that they know to contribute some of the food if they so wish.
Bridal shower is mainly for the bride while the engagement party is mainly for both. Go with a Shower Dance, both sexes can attend :)
A bridal shower is, indeed, the same as a stagette - also known as a stag party for the bride. Bridal showers, though, have a less raunchy connotation compared to Stagette.
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Depends on the bachelorette party that you are throwing.
No a baccalaureate is a graduation. What you refer to is a shower.
The maid of honor with the help of the bridesmaids throws the bachelorette party.
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