Does he still love her even though he is with you?

Answer 1

she was his friend first.. she introduced me to him.. weve been chatting not long... but we enjoy each others company.. weve been talking about da person we both love.. i keep giving him hints that its him.. nd he's doing da same. .. i finally confessed when my tfriend(the one who introduced us) kept pushing me too.. and now he's my boyfriend.. for da first few days.. i became shy towards him.. but became myself when i noticed how hard he's been trying to get the awkwardness away.. .. weve only been official for a few days.. lateley he has been having problems.. and our conversation hasn't changed abit, he still treats me like before.. so i don't know how he feels about me.. we had a conversation when he told me dat he loved my best friend first.. before he knew me.. and the only reason he stopped loving was because she loved someone else... ever since then .. ive tried not let ler name pop in our conversation but we cant help but mention her all the time.. he doesnt show his feelings for me often.. he doesnt say "i love you" when i say it.... were hidden from my parents.. but i tell my friends that i have a byfriend and im proud of it... i sometimes doubt that he does da same, i sometimes doubt that no other than a handfull friends of his knows about us... weve met only though the internet.. weve never talked or seen each other.. i know he's serious when it comes to relationship, because of the way he talks about love on our previous conversations, and because its how my friend describes him.. my problem is, i don't know if he still loves her.. and if he loves her more...

it could be a possibility

AnswerWhy not trust him unless, and until, you have some hard evidence to the contrary. Trust is the basis of any relationship...if you're unable to give him your trust, you're dooming the relationship.

Answer 2

They could, but if you are with someone else, it's better not to be entertaining possibilities. Either be with the person you are with or break up if you think you might want to be back with someone else. It isn't fair to the person you are with to be with them, but to be thinking of someone else.

If you are just curious, you could always ask them, then encourage them to move on.