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How can a marriage be fixed after your husband has gone to jail for domestic voilence?
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∙ 18y ago
Well... There are alot of things to consider before forging ahead on this one. Being a woman who survived domestic voilence.. This is close to home for me. One of the first things you need to do before "fixing" this marriage. Is FIX you. You can't fix him. You can't love him enough to make him well, you can't love him enough to make him stop the voilence. Domestic voilence is a huge deal. It's not just a love tap, a hug or a kiss. Somebody laid their hands on you, or you laid your hands on someone else, and that is what needs to be looked at. First you need to look at why you want to "fix" this marriage. Is it because you love him, or you need him? You can go to therapy everyday of the week and twice on Sunday, but unless you know why your doing what your doing or letting someone else do what they do, that isn't going to get better. I believe people can change, but the statistic is that people who use domestic voilence as a mean to settle things.. DONT. That is the sad truth. No amount of LOVE, SUPPORT, COURAGE, FAITH, fact is love doesn't hurt like that. The abuser doesn't stop unless they choose that. And no amount of jail time does that for them. It comes down to actually choosing it. Ask yourself a couple of questions. Do I love you because I need you, or Do I need you because I love you? And, What would you try if you knew you could NOT fail? Would you go out on your own? Would you stay and risk getting hurt again? Would you stay comfortably miserable? Would you stay with your husband because you believe in the integrity of his spirt, the truth behind his eyes, the voice inside your GUT that says... This is worth it, or RUN... what does your gut say? Counseling and therapy are great tools, but you have to work them.. I personally knew some that have recoverd from this.. it can be done. BUT its far and few in between... It takes recovery on BOTH sides, and more then just simple will power, it takes wayyy more then that. It can set you free, or....
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∙ 18y ago
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How important is fixed marriage?
It isn't.
How do you get pregnant when husband is fixed?
You sleep with the mailman.
What do you call a girl whose marriage is fixed?
If you mean a marriage where parents decide their partners for their children, it's called an arranged marriage.
If your husband is fixed can he make babies?
Not unless he has the surgery reversed.
What are the chanced of conceiving if your husband has been fixed for 3 years?
none
When is prithviraj marriage?
his marriage is not fixed yet nor is he engaged to anyone as far as i know.
In relation to fixed external lighting intended for domestic use what is the maximum permitted wattage?
The maximum permitted wattage for fixed external lighting intended for domestic use is typically around 150 watts per fixture. However, this can vary depending on local building codes and regulations, so it's important to check with your local authorities to ensure compliance.
How was early marriage in the history?
it was fixed orally, especially by parents & even when the couples were just babies.
Can you report a fixed marriage done in the US?
If by fixed you mean fake then yes, you can. Contact your local Dept. of Homeland Security office with as much information as you have (names, addresses etc.).
How old do a pit bull have to be to have puppies?
About 1 years old it depends if it's fixed or not.if it's fixed it can't have puppies.And you have to own a male pit bull to be the husband.
What change resulted in the building of European megaliths?
A shift away from hunting-gathering to fixed agriculture.
Salary advance for marriage?
I dugesh Kumar Gupta working in HR&ADMN deptt, my marriage is fixed on 05.05.2012 and for marriage arrangement i need Rs. 50,000/- as an advance. I requested to give me above said amount as an adavcne which shall be deducted from my salary.
