How can an emotionally mentally and verbally abused pregnant wife get her husband out of the home?

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If, he will go away, then do it the way below. Otherwise, remove yourself for the safety of your child. The other stuff will resolve over time. Call the police and have him arrested for assault and battery. Call protective services and notify them of your endangerment and they will come and remove him or if you can remove yourself to a safe place [friend's house, relative etc] do it now. no reason to endanger yourself more than what is already done. Your question hits home for me, I was 9 months pregnant when the "father" abused me, I went to the hospital and I was there for 6 hours, my son was fine thank god he is now 10 months old and as cute as ever, but he had to work in the afternoon when I got home he was at work, I called his work and told them to tell him not to come home and his stuff will be waiting, he came and got it and thank god that was the last I seen of him, I did report it to the police, that's what you need to do, GET PROOF THEN CALL THE POLICE, they will tell you to get a protective order, but you need to keep him away from the baby when its born, who knows if he will hurt the child if he will hurt you while you're carrying the child. Take him to court do all that you can to protect your baby. Message me if you need any advise or someone to talk to about it, I was there! I am now a 22 year old single mother, but so happy to get rid of him. Get out now, it does not matter what you take, the coffee pot or what ever what you will get out with now is self respect he will not change let me repeat he will not change, I have been there guess what I have stayed there for 30 years I am now 47 years old and hate him more now than I did then but now I will not leave because I will not leave the things I worked for how dumb. they are all things I should of left 29 years ago ,,LEAVE NOW I was 7 months pregnant when my husband (live-in boyfriend at the time) became physically violent with me. He would tell me that he was going to take my baby away from me and that I was going to be an "unfit" mother and that no court in their right mind would give me custody of my baby. I knew that Adam was emotionally abusive to me but like statistics point out, most abusers become physically violent when their wife is pregnant. After the birth of our daughter, he would still threaten to take my daughter away from me. I knew that he was trying to scare me but the thought of my daughter not having her mom and her dad in her life made me sick. I did not want my family to be a "statistic." I grew up in a happy, healthy home where my parents are happily married. The abuse only got worse and so I convinced him to move back home to WI so that we could be closer to family and friends. I still stayed. It wasn't until the teachers that I worked with were tired of seeing my bruises that they had called my family to move me and my daughter out. They showed up one evening with their husbands and moved us out. I did not want to leave but I know now what they were seeing and how terrible things really were. There is life after the abuser...this is something that I'm still working on. It has been almost two years since our separation/divorce. I could not of done it on my own. My advice to you: don't listen to ANY of his threats. Tell the people that you work with, tell your family...tell ANYONE that will listen! They will help you get out! Again, I don't think that I could have done it on my own! YOU WILL BE OKAY!!! It has been almost two years and I'm still working on getting over the abuse but I am confident that I WILL be okay and I will eventually find someone who treats me and my daughter well. Good luck to you, the sooner you get out the better! Also: something to think about: I married Adam after we had our daughter. I would have gotten primary placement & custody. I still have her for primary placement but we do have joint custody as this is how WI law works. Educate yourself and get a good attorney and be ready to fight for your child! I did and it paid off! If you can't afford an attorney, look into applying for something called Judacare (available through your local government/county center.) My thoughts and prayers are with you. Oh! One last thing: document, document, document...take pictures, show the police, show people! The more documentation, you have, the less likely he will be able to get your baby!

All you have 2 do is call the police and press charges and get a restraining order.