How can he say he loves you more than anything but wont leave his wife?

You have to look at your situation from the perspective of an outsider...he is probably just saying he loves you. Anyone can say those words, it does not mean it is true. You must look at his actions. If he is not acting as if he is in love with you, well, than it does not matter much if he says it...does it? Men, and women, say those words all the time as a means to an end, to get something from another that they want, and they feel it is easier to obtain if they say those three words. Just forget him, there are plenty of guys out there that will show you their love, instead of just saying it. Jessica