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How can you deal with the painful images of your husbands affair?
Mgodat
- When a husband has an affair on his wife it is normal to find it ugly; humiliating and that you are angry because you once trusted your husband and he broke that bond of trust. It leaves you feeling betrayed and mistrustful of him. No one forgets traumas in their life, but, in time the most painful part of the trauma does ebb. You have a right to be angry so get it out of your system, but wise people turn that anger into a productive way of either saving the marriage by seeking marriage counseling and trying to overcome this affair and again being happy together as a married couple or leaving the marriage and becoming a stronger woman for it and eventually, if the wife chooses to leave she will meet someone else in her future that will make her happy and gives her the respect she deserves. If the husband has only cheated once then 'to err is human' although it doesn't make it right and it is worth saving the marriage, but if the husband has one affair after the other it is best to move on because he has not learned his lesson or is too selfish to care whether these affairs hurt you and the rest of the family.
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∙ 13y ago
Wiki User
∙ 13y ago- When a wife suffers painful images of her husband's affair it is time that heals and these memories will fade if you and your husband see a marriage counselor to learn how to deal with any problems you may have in your marriage in the future. To see a marriage counselor is not to blame either party, but simply give them good tools to resolve any problems in their marriage no matter how small or large those problems are and to learn to communicate on a better basis without arguing or insulting each other. Many marriages are successful after one of the spouse's had made a human mistake of cheating. Sit down with him and make it clear that you are not going to continue with the marriage if he continues to cheat or not try to rectify the wrong he caused by cheating. Meanwhile to keep your own sanity start seeing girlfriends; join a club; volunteer and show your husband how independent and strong you are and that you are quite capable of moving forward from your marriage if he should decide to wander again.
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