You are absolutely correct in your analysis of this person. They have had 3 years to seek out help for their problem and appear to have wasted those 3 years. Unless this person is willing to go for help (and mean it) there is nothing else you can do. It's best to move on. Good luck Marcy
He's playing you like a fine fiddle. Narcissistic people are ego-maniacs, controllers and can be verbally abusive (even physically abusive at times.) They love to feel in control so "game playing" is high on their list and that's exactly what this guy is doing to you. A person that loves you does not treat you in this manner. Tell him to get lost! Get on your own two feet and become independent and think of the signs of this narcissistic ex-boyfriend and learn from your mistakes. There is never a happy ending in a narcissistic relationship.
The boss was fired for his abusive behavior towards his employees.
Yes, by being jealous in a relationship can lead by abuse or can destroy your relationship it can make you suspicious and you will do anything just to guard her/him.
First off 'ex' means the relationship is over! You should not even be near this person who is abusive and it's time you moved on in your life. In relationships where one is abusive it is human instinct to protect oneself and some abused victims will either stay and take that abuse silently; fight along with the abuser or leave. If you decide to stay in the relationship and have the strength to stand up to the abuser then you sink to the bottom of the barrel because you are fighting with survival instincts. Get out of this relationship!
Abusive relationship is not good. It affects nearly all aspects of life.
Not all gold-diggers are abusive or narcissistic. Some women just love money are use sex, their looks or anything else to pad their nests. If you see one stay away! Abuse is not about having a specific charcater or trait - it is a pattern of behaviors. A gold digger does not equal abuse or narcissism. A gold digger simply takes advantage of an opportunity to gain wealth. Sure if he claims to not have money even though he works and does not want to spend a single dime on you, AND if he does he'll get mad and complain about it throw it in your face and make you wish he never bought that egg mcmuffin for you.
the definition of an abusive relationship is the husband beats the wife or/and the wife beats the husband. they can either cheat on each other or literally beat each other with an item or anything
When the girls are older, they can make the visits on their own. Regardless of what you do with that family, the abusive behavior will occur.
When you are in a very bad abusive relationship, you should use caution while building your plan to get to a safe place. Seek local resources that might be useful, including advocates that can help in putting together a safety plan and in utilizing whatever legal resources might be useful or necessary in your plan. Build your plan erring on the side of paranoia -- leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship. When you have a plan, follow it, even when you're scared. It is very unlikely that anything in your relationship will change until you are in a safe place.
get help ASAP
well you shouldn't hate yourself you should hate the person that abused you...because you didnt do anything wrong Answer: you shouldn't hate yourself neither the other person because it.was what you wanted at one time and if it turned out to be an abusive relationship so you learn what to do and what to avoid in the next relationship .
if you are in a abusive relationship just don't stay with them say that you don't feel the spark in the love and that you want to move on.