How can you go back on track with your relationship after your husbands infidelity?

Answer 1

Many relationships can actually be mended after infidelity believe it or not. Before you find the way back to happiness after infidelity breaches your relationship you first must find the root of the infidelity. Women are much more emotional and cheat for different reasons than men do. Many times women are seeking validation of themselves when their mate often ignores them or doesn't spend adequate time kissing their backside.... You know... Telling them how perfect, wonderful and beautiful they are. Other women will cheat for fiancial gain. Ie their husband doesn't buy them enough gifts or simply isn't up to par in treating them like a goddess.

Here's the thing.... Women need everything to be perfect in order for them to stay true to one partner. The mate must be good looking, wealthy, spend TONS of time pampering the hell out of her, buying her expensive jewelry, cars etc.... In order to back on track with a woman of this type there are three things you can do.... Either go out and get a MUCH better job or hit the lottery and buy her her own island. On this island she must have servants who remind her of her everlasting beauty at each moment. The third thing is to make sure this woman stays in complete isolation because at the first site of a bigger lottery ticket, she's GONE! See what I'm saying?

Why do men cheat? Simply put.... Men cheat because they get bored of the same old thing each and everyday. That coupled with the fact that they like variety. I don't care how great the steak is....After five years of eating the same damn steak.... You see what I'm saying? Men cheat because they like variety and in most cases it's "just sex." What does that mean? It means that they view the partner as nothing more than just an object. I'm not saying they don't respect them or that they don't like them. In many cases they do. It's just that they would rarely ever choose this person over their wife who they probably love a great deal. Sex is just sex, afterall.....

By now you've probably figured out that this piece was meant to lighten the situation of the person looking this up because their significant other probably cheated on them. It's not in any wy shape or form meant to give real advice.... Hitting the lottery or buying an island are completely unrealistic unless you're 90 years old with only a cat in your will or Jay Z.

I don't condone cheating nor do I believe that women only cheat because they like to be pampered. Some women just need to have the bottom knocked out of them by a strapping young buck every now and again. It happens!

If your spouse cheated on you and you want to get things back on track here's what you need to do... Either trust them or get the F out of Dodge and tell them to have a nice life! Once someone cheats, the realization that they will most likely do it again.....and again.....and again...... and again will probably set in and more than likely doomed. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. That's the only FACT in this entire thing. Good luck