How can you help someone that has been abused in the past and seems to think about it all the time?
I would find a group in your area. One that focuses on sexual
abuse. It is very important that you talk about it and get the
right help. Not from friends or family. They won't be able to offer
the help that is needed. It is important that you talk to a
professional because it will effect you the rest of your life, with
ever relationship you or the person attempt to have.