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How can you help your friend get respect from her parents if her dad always puts the things he is supposed to do on her and her mother never believes her side of the story when they fight?
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∙ 18y ago
First off, children in their teens should see their parents as "people" and not just their parents. People have all sorts of problems in their lives and it's hard living with the opposite sex sometimes. This problem with your friend's parents is not about her, but the relationship between the parents. Unfortunately, these parents are immature and she is dragged into the whole mess. You friend has done nothing wrong and it isn't her that needs to fight for respect, but her parents! Sometimes adults can be asses and it's just not reserved for the young. Children are often caught up in the web of hostility and constant battles between parents. If she can't make her parents see how their actions are breaking up the family she can request to live with grandparents or even aunts/uncles. This, of course, would be a last resort. Your friend's mother has not taken the time to sit down with her husband and discuss their problems. There is a big gap there. It's obvious your friend's mother is depressed and beside herself with the father's behavior. However, this should never be the problem for the child and they should never be dragged into these situations. Tell your friend to try and get both of her parents to sit down with her and she should speak from the heart and tell both parents how she feels. It's OK for her to say in a nice way that it's time she feels her parents should sit down and discuss there problems and not pass them onto her. If the parents refuse to listen sometimes a shock method is the best policy such as her saying, "I'm so tired of you both fighting and mom, you're always blaming me for things and not believing me, and dad, you pass on your responsibilities to me. If you are so unhappy together then why don't you get a divorce?" This is usually a zinger of a statement to make and forces the parents to have some realization of reality. Your friends parents are probably good people, but are unhappy, probably depressed and they haven't taken the time to sit down with each other to try and resolve their problems. Your a very good and loyal friend! Good luck Marcy
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