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change your number and don't give out to anyone that knows him and then avoid him at all cost if you see him around ignore and go about your normal day like he doesn't exist or ask him what is his problem and then tell him to leave you alone you don't want anything to do with him! Talk to a judge or attorney and get a restraining order. If you feel there is any threat of violence, explain that to the judge and there is little doubt that the restraining order will be awarded. After that, if he violates any part of the restraining order he can be arrested.

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Q: How can you make your ex leave you alone and quit trying to make up excuses to contact you if one time he is verbally abusive and the next time he is so in love with you and wants to work things out?
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If you really care about the person you wouldn't verbally abuse them. But, you can try to think of the good things about the person when your about to make a mean comment.


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After being in a verbally abusive relationship does the victim often become the abuser in her next relationship?

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Would an abusive ex-partner who still bothers you be mad if he suspects you are involved with a new man?

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Should you leave a verbally abusive partner?

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How do you know when someone is in an abusive relationship?

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How do you cope living with an abusive husband?

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