How can you tell if a guy really is a player or if he is just lying to boost his ego and to try to make you jealous?

Answer 1

== It's an instinct== I'm not really an expert on guys, but there's some advice that I do have for you that might help you out. If you have been dating that guy for a while, by now you have an idea of how he is. And trust me, you could find out the answer right away if you pay attention to what he does and how he acts in front of you. It's an instinct for a girl to know these kind of things, but you have to know how to use your skill. If you haven't been going out with him and you just want to know whether he's just trying to play you, I would have to know more about your situation. I can't just answer your question just because you're asking it; it takes a little bit more than that. Well I think that if a guy is lying to a girl, then he would be telling his friends, and if you ask his friends, then you should ask them and tell them not to tell him that you asked because that can cause a relationship to break up, or it can get really nasty. Also, just listen to you heart and you can tell the truth if the boy is good for you or not. If he really is a "playah," and there's some truth to his bragging, then you should not demean yourself by being with him, no matter how much of an ego boost YOU get by being his girl, because, if he IS a lady's man, then he's not really your man. If he's NOT a lady's man, and his words are just empty boasts, and he's just saying those things to make you jealous, then he's a sh!thead, because he's puffing himself up and making himself feel good at your expense, and that's selfish and inconsiderate.