they cry don't go to school no talking or reply don't eat much lock their rooms, and/or lays in their bed all day having nightmares and/or bad memories
you tell him you love him because thats what he needs at the moment. i tried to tell my mom that i wanted to kill myself and she just got really upset. When that happened all i wanted was her to hold me and tell me everything is going to be OK and that she loves me. Tell him that he means everything to you. you might not be telling him that enough. You make sure he know how much you love him and make sure he knows you will always be there for him no matter what. Now you really need to talk to a professional. you should be so thankful that he was able to tell you that, that means that he wants help. most kids who say they want to kill themselves fell like they do at that time but subconsciously they just want help. Talk to a school counselor or your pediatrician about options and make sure you do this fast. do not let this go on it will only get worse if you don't do anything about it.
People just think their lives are so bad to the point where they kill themselves. It really is sad to see these people in this state of mind. When someone is thinking of killing themselves, I sometimes tell them the problems I had and how I made it through them and I let them know I care even if I was a stranger to them. If you know someone who is suicidal, get them help right away! They may be mad at you but would you rather have them gone or save their life and have them be mad at you but forgive you later on?
Personally, it breaks my heart when kids want to kill themselves because they have so much ahead of them. I think you should talk them through this. I know from personal experience because I have tired to talk to people through this. And to those who think teenagers who are actually depressed are trying to get attention listen up. It really does make me angry when depression is not taken seriously because it can be very dangerous and lead to suicide. Yes, some teenagers will do that to get attention but that does not go to every teenager. Most of the time when someone says they are depressed I can tell they are not trying to get sympathy because they would say stuff like, "I feel suicidal." Yes, you are probably thinking, "How can you tell? You are not a mind reader." You are right. I am not. But when someone is about to kill themselves, I take it very seriously and try to talk them out of it or get them help, even if they were to get mad at me for telling because I will not loose a friend.
If someone is contemplating suicide, it's crucial to take them seriously and offer immediate support. Encourage them to express their feelings and listen actively without judgment. Connect them with professional help like a therapist or a helpline, and involve their close friends or family members who can provide additional support. Signs that someone may be contemplating suicide can include talking about death or suicide, expressing hopelessness or feeling trapped, withdrawing from activities, giving away possessions, or sudden calmness after a period of depression.
Answer is in the question perhaps? Are they looking at the 'How-To' or 'Reasons for' aspects of it, either that or take them out on a random day and just chat them up, get a feel, it all boils down to how well you know this person and if it's not that well.....find someone who does.
If you live in New Zealand, you should kill yourself.
if they hit themselves
AnswerTry and get him to talk to you and tell you what is going on and why he feels that way. If he will not open up to you he needs to talk with someone else who can help him work through whatever is going on. When someone talks of wanting to kill themselves you never know if they really will or not. He is very troubled by something and really, really needs to talk with someone (even if it's a counselor) and get to the issues that are going on with him and try and get them resolved as much as possible.
instead of telling them to kill themselves, you could tell them to love themselves. and who they are. And by the way, do you want to go to hell? Life is good. but those who never try in their life will feel alone. LOVE YOURSELF, SIR. DON'T EVER ASK ANYONE TO KILL THEMSELVES. You guys are worth it. Lovely people. Smile every day. Don't let anything down. I am with y'all
Unless they tell you themselves, there is no way to know.
You tell him straight out "NO!" If he doesn't like it, tell him to use it with someone else!
i dont know someone tell me
you can tell by the look in there eyes and the sound of there vocie
well... if he wants yours and if he is seeeingg someone else
Bossy or a know-it-all
If he wants to be with them more than you
Tell him you are waiting for someone else.